The Husband

 

The Husband

In the normal scenario the husband would be earning more than the wife or he might be the sole earning member. Apart from the family responsibilities he has to shoulder, the demands on his job would be taxing him inexorabaly.

How does he manage?

He knows how to compartmentalise. It makes him switch on and switch off and juggle his responsibilities with no overhang. He multitasks at so many levels. He shuts off one side of his brain and focusses on the other  and then goes back and forth.  He knows the family revolves around him. It makes him create quality time for the family. Though he could not be physically present at all  important events in the family due to his heavy  work load he would compensate for it with the quality of attention  he  provides when he is with the family.

He supports his wife and encourages her to realise her own potential. The transformation would be unbelievable to those who knew her earlier.

His children know he would be there when they need him most though he may not be able to be with them all the time.

He inspires every one around him. He  wins their trust. He makes them raise their level of performance higher and higher.

The family too.