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C.A.CHACKO Former Mechanical Foreman - B Covenented Official KDHPCo Munnar Kerala India
C.A.CHACKO Former Mechanical Foreman - B Covenented Official KDHPCo Munnar Kerala India
It's 13 years
Left us on 5th April 2008 at the age of 91 years 2 months and 4 days.Led a many splendoured life
They say a cat has 9 lives
But he had lived through the Second World War where Bombs and Bullets reigned
Never knew he would survive the present moment
Overcame Japanese invasion and occupation
Jack of all trades
Master in everything
A fighter
Sunday, January 17, 2021
RISK AVERSION
RISK AVERSION
We protect our children as they are precious to us. We place
them in the protective mode. Biologists call
it the ‘shield tendency’. Parents are worried about their little ones getting hurt
playing sport, going on adventure or climbing trees, they impose strict control
upon them to prevent the occurrence any unfortunate mishaps. They are forced to confine themselves to their
studies. The parents are after their children to make it good in the world as
they delineate. But there are risks if you are over protective. Kids lose their
sense of adventure, their spirits, their resilience, their sense of humour and
their joy. Eventually they lose their way as they grow up. Do not structure
them. Do not think for them. Do not force risk aversion upon them. Let them
speak. Let them think. Let them fall and get up. Let them act. Let them laugh.
Let them take reasonable risks. Let them grow up as the finest individuals they
ever can be.
DRAWING A LEAF FROM OUR OWN FAMILY
DRAWING A LEAF FROM OUR OWN FAMILY
We had put both of our sons at the Christ Nagar English
Medium High School for their schooling from the fifth standard. It wasn’t co-ed at that time. I was happy they
were in a premium English Medium School. I knew my failings, studying in a
Malayalam medium Government High School. Though I had been a good student, though
I had good teachers, though I had an exceptionally commendable result at the
SSLC, though I could easily garner admission at the UCCollege, Aluva, a premium
institution, I had been all at sea in the College atmosphere. I was lost. The abrupt
shift from the Malayalam medium to the English medium had damaged my intellect
and my career beyond redemption. I could not communicate well in English. I
could not understand the nuances of the language. The deficiency had played
havoc with my career too as I had found it difficult to land a job and finally my
functioning when I had a job. I was happy my children would not have the hard
grind I had. But it was not to be. They still do suffer from the Christ Nagar
branded English medium.
‘SPEAK ENGLISH’, the School had written everywhere. But no
one spoke English there. The teachers communicated
in Malayalam.
I found the going pathetic. I told my sons to speak in
English at least when they were at home. I said their mother. PG in English,
degree in English, (both from Women’s College), Pre-degree at All Saints
College, and Schooling in Holy Angels was the apt person to bring them up in an
English medium environment. But all the three were diffident. They confined
themselves to Malayalam with a vengeance putting to naught my pleadings.
I did not let go. I asked a classmate of my elder son at the
degree level whether he was well conversant in English. He said he was not. I
asked him again whether he wished to acquire the skill. He said yes. I had
asked him to bring a few of his friends if they were interested.
We had around ten young men at home. I invited my sons and my
wife to join the group. I had been very concerned about my younger son who had
been insecure to the core.
Well, the activity began.
I said each one had to speak. There would be a topic they
themselves would choose the previous week. One person would speak on the topic
for fifteen minutes in English. They would have to stand and speak and there
would be no allowance on the fifteen minutes criteria. Once the speech was delivered,
the rest had to do a critique. They should not speak in any other language than
English, once session was on.
The young men took up the challenge sportingly. The
improvement was clearly visible as time progressed.
After a while the sessions could not be continued.
One day, I and my wife were strolling on the road adjacent to
the Secretariat. We saw someone riding pillion on a Scooter and waving. They stopped the Scooter. It was one of the
participants in our sessions along with his mother. As we stood there waiting
both of them ran back to reach us. The youngster introduced us to his mother
and said, ”Amma, these are the people who have made me what I am.”
We felt fulfilled.
I narrated the story solely to suggest we can extend the
activity anywhere.. The participants would be better off if we do this. If feasible,
the modality could be worked out. My only suggestion is the sessions should be confined
to one hour with groups of ten students each, once or twice a week, monitored by those who are well conversant in English.
I remember the words of the CSI Moderator while attending a
Governing Council meeting of the KUT Seminary, Kannammoola, Thiruvananthapuram, “The graduates from KUTS should have the ability to
lead Worship in English and deliver messages in English, just as they develop the proficiency in Malayalam or their mother tongue.”
Monday, January 11, 2021
DELIVERING UNDER PRESSURE
DELIVERING UNDER PRESSURE
Success and failure
are very much dependent on the paradoxes of the mind.
There had been an
experiment with two groups of people.
The first group was
given a task to find a solution to a problem. They were given sufficient time
to deliberate. They were not saddled with anything else or any distraction
during the period.
Though they had
finally submitted their solution, it was found to be wrong.
The second group was given
the same task. However the group was saddled with distractions during the whole
period. They did not have any free moment to think at all. They could not
deliberate freely like the other group. They had the same time the other group
had.
Finally when they came
up with the solution it was found to be correct.
The findings were both
emphatic and paradoxical. Those who had enough time failed in picking the right
solution whereas the distractions had improved the performance of the second
group manifold.
Thinking too much was
the curse for the first group. Their conscious deliberations finally made them
reach the wrong end.
For the second group
the conscious mind was distracted. They were forced to rely on memory as they
could not freely deliberate at all. It enabled the subconscious mind to come up
with the right solution.
The author focuses on
the penalty shootout in a football match. Unless the penalty taker could free
his mind of emotions that swell within and could keep the mind blank the lonely
walk from the middle of the ground to the penalty spot would play havoc with
his chances to score.
My own experiences
reveal the same. When I had to write an examination or face an interview, it
was imperative I had to prepare well to succeed. However I did not succeed
whenever I had failed to keep my mind blank for a short while preceding
the examination or the interview.
I had seen my son
succeeding in his attempts when he had adopted the tactic.
Courtesy THE GREATEST,
Matthew Syed