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Sunday, June 21, 2026

AGNOSTIC // EXAM - AGNOSTIC

 


AGNOSTIC

A person who is not sure if God exists or not.

EXAM-AGNOSTIC

The term "exam-agnostic" refers to content, platforms, or tools that are not tied to any single specific test or curriculum.

 It means the resource is designed to teach foundational skills or deliver services that apply universally, regardless of the test you are preparing to take.

Depending on the context, here is how the concept is applied:

1. Education & Prep Materials Definition:

Resources—like books, AI platforms, or coaching portals—that teach core concepts rather than memorizing answers for a specific test like the JEE, NEET, or UPSC.

Benefit: 

Allows students to build fundamental skills (like reading comprehension or math principles) that translate to any examination they face.

Examples: 

Platforms like SATHEE provide access to curriculum-agnostic learning modules and competitive exam prep via the Ministry of Education.

2. Job & Platform Matching Definition: 

In technology and data science, it means an algorithm or matching system that operates successfully without relying on predefined "examination functions" to evaluate candidates or match them (e.g., job postings on LinkedIn or dating platforms).

Benefit: 

Creates fairer bilateral matches between two parties by looking at mutual preferences rather than rigid, formulaic test results.

3. Medical & Diagnostic Context Definition:

A medical exam (like a physical checkup or an MRI review) conducted without the doctor or radiologist knowing the patient's prior history or prior test results.

Benefit: 

Prevents bias. By remaining "agnostic," a physician evaluates physical symptoms or imaging scans completely objectively, without preconceived notions.

Friday, June 19, 2026

READING HAS BUILT ME UP

 

I have been reading since I was a child. I can't remember a time when I wasn't reading. Papa had nurtured my love for books, newspapers and periodicals.

Reading has given me the courage to be who I am. It helps me make sense of the world. It allows me to step into lives apart from my own. It builds empathy in me. It helps me express myself with clarity.

Books have sparked my imagination. Reading is invaluable as it assists us in understanding people and their emotions. Growing up with books has instilled in  me an impetus to familiarise myself with the art of storytelling.

Reading has enlarged my horizon. It has developed my personality.

I love books that explore relationships, identity and complexities of life. Fiction has been the platform that has brought them alive.

There was a time when I used to read three books a day. I had been searching for a job. I was staying at home. My siblings had been away in their college hostels. After Papa left for his work, Mummy and I were the two at home. I would be immersed in my books - fiction, western and thillers -  and Mummy on  finishing her tasks in the kitchen would spend hours together reading the bible, praying  and singing spirituals in praise of  God. The exact count of books I had been through those two years is beyond recall.

Later on my favourite spot for reading  became my travels. When you travel you have to spend a long time over it.  And it  helps you catch up with  reading as nothing can replace the experience of getting lost in a good book.

One thing I am sanguine. 

Reading has transformed me.

Reading has built me up.


I composed this, drawing inspiration partially from the reflections of Indian actors Andrea Jeremiah and Kalyani Priyadarshan in Trivandrum Times, The Times of India of June 19, 2026 on the influence of books and reading  in their lives. For me, they were depicting my own life. I have taken the liberty of interjecting what I had been through here apart from reframing a few  words,  phrases and sentences in the articles.






Thursday, June 18, 2026

ASK WHAT PEOPLE CAN DO, NOT WHAT DEGREE THEY HOLD

 ASK WHAT PEOPLE CAN DO, NOT WHAT DEGREE THEY HOLD


The things worth doing rarely fit neatly into a planning cycle.

The deepest shift needed in selection of people for recruitment is the simplest.

We have to stop asking what certificate someone holds.

We have to start asking what they can actually do. Project based assessment, demonstrated competency, applied evaluation- these have been on the reform agenda for years. They keep getting deferred as they are hard to standardise. That difficulty is exactly why they matter

The things worth doing rarely fit neatly into a planning cycle

Ipsita Gauba in Times of India 18June2026

ARGENTINE FOOTBALLING TRADITION

 


Argentine footballing tradition

It is flexible with their formations and tactics, keen on passing and fluidity.

It is also capable of fast sprints and hoofs, if circumstances require it.

A system has been created by Argentine players where in one match alone we are just as likely to see a hundred touches in 20 minutes followed by 20 minutes without touching the ball. 

It is a cobweb of synchronized players who can slip in and out of different roles.

Each one  thinks and acts all the time.

The entire squad is like a brain in action, neural networks triggering each other, creating infinite relationships.

Marcela Mora y Araujo in Times of India 18June2026


IN FOOTBALL YOU HAVE SPLIT SECONDS

 


In football you have split seconds to make important decisions, 

and 

intelligence is the ability to make the right choice at speed.


When I found this in the newspaper I started thinking.

It applies everywhere.

When you drive, when you cook, when you write an exam,

when you work in a bank, when you teach, 

when you spend your hard earned money

when you prescribe a medicine

when you conduct a surgery

the list is extensive. 

there is no end to it

To an extent, you can premeditate

but you can't go far

I have found taking a decision itself 

is the most challenging task in the world

You can go wrong

And you can't board a time machine

and travel back in time

What is lost is lost forever

Your gains are transient7

the bar is raised forever

Inch by inch

till you falter

Still there is no way out

You, you have to decide

Quick



WHY MESSI CAN STILL BE MESSI

 


Why Messi can still be Messi?
Because, even close to 40, he still possesses the footballing intelligence to make right decisions at speed.
Let's enjoy it while it lasts
Messi feels like he's closer to closing night just as he has put three past, Luca Zidane, Zinedine Zidane's son.
Let's enjoy that he's still playing, that he's bowing out playing.
Marcela Mora y Araujo in Times of India 18June2026

"It's an advantage to have Messi because of how he handles the group and pushes it forward.
Because of whom he is.
He doesn't care about individual records. He prioritizes the group and for us it's incredible"
Rodrigo De Paul 
Argentina 

And Messi says:
Everything I am experiencing is bonus. I've been fortunate enough to achieve all my dreams or even more than I ever dreamed of achieving, both professionally and personally.

Times of India reports on 18June2026
Messi is the first man to appear in six world cups
It is a tale of perseverance, heartbreak, redemption and enduring excellence.
While his left foot has set the bar and benchmark of footballing excellence,it's amazing that he began his 16 goal journey with his right foot,
The world waits for him, to get another moment of thrill


GAYA IN BIHAR

 

                                                     GAYA IN BIHAR           

Gaya achieved yet another distinction when Shubham Kumar, son of a hardware shop owner, achieved the No.1 rank in this year's (2026) JEE, Advanced. He resides in the densely populated Nadiraganj, 3 km away from Patwa Toli, known as the IIT factory. 

Around 200 of the 1000 households in the village boast of an IITian.

Shubhman had moved to Rajsthan's coaching hub, Kota for coaching.

However, most of the students in Gaya are attending coaching at the free coaching centres at Gaya itself. It is a silent revolution in South Bihar. The free coaching centres provide space, material and mentorship to hundreds of students.

Students who have cleared IIT return the favour by supporting newer batches, creating a cycle of mentorship and empowerment.

The local community has embraced the idea of collective progress.

Parents have no hesitation to invest in children's education despite financial constraints. Former IITians happily support upcoming students.. 

Villagers work in powerlooms to fund tuition and educational requirements of their children. They are committed to ensuring that the past or poverty doesnot bar talent from flourishing.

Gaya was earlier famous for the enlightening of the Budha. It had also been well known for the ancestral salvation of the Hindus. But, during 1990s, the Magadh region of which Gaya was a part was notorious for bloody clashes between the Ranveer sena, a defunct private militia of upper caste landlords.and landless labourers supported by Maoist factions. Massacres had marred the lanscape for a long time. 

What is visible today is that families once trapped in a cycle of violence and fear are nutruring engineers and doctors now.

Gaya is a symbol.

The magical transformation in Gaya is before us. We can see that  former students from the free coaching centres who have made it big in the world have no hesitation in lending a hand for  the upscaling of their own brethren. 

Guess what will happen if Gaya is replicated everywhere? 

From fear to IIT dreams, Gaya's quiet revolution
writes Manoj Chaurasia in Times of india of 12 June 2026


RAM MANOHAR LOHIA IN GOA

 

Ram Manohar Lohia in Goa on June 18,1946

"Even if we cannot at once attain our freedom, we must at least think and speak of freedom and build up the strength to strive for it.

Our hope is the strength of the people, that is ever piling up. It will create freedom, no matter the unending trials we may have to crisscross."

(Redone in part)

The Indian Army had liberated Goa from the Portuguese on December 19, 1961.


Wednesday, June 17, 2026

PRAKASH AMRITRAJ

 PRAKASH AMRITRAJ

For years Prakash Amritraj lived in his father Vijay's long shadow. Today, the former player of tennis has become one of television's most perceptive and distinctive voices.

Prakash Amritraj, son of Vijay Amritraj, stepped away from Tennis in 2010, about a year after reaching a career high ranking of 154. He had felt his passion for the sport was on the wane. 

Two years later, while attending Wimbledon as a spectator, a conversation with Richard Williams altered the way he thought about himself and his career. 

"They (Richard's daughters Serena and Venus Williams) don't even process what other people think about them, especially the negative stuff."

Prakash speaks of the lessons he took from that afternoon, " I thought to myself, what a magical way to exist. Because then, you can focus on what you nactually need to do."

Though he took hiself seriously into tennis again, a shoulder injury at 30 had halted his come back. It was the first heartbreak in his life. 

Heartbreak, in time became motivation. He refused to leave his potential unrealised. After tennis broke his heart,  Amritraj found his courtside voice active.

He rebuilt himself with patience and purpose. He trusted his inner voice. He chased fitness relentlessly. Training was an obsession to him. 

He states his biggest asset is listening. 

He goes by the principle, "When people see someone who looks like them succeed on merit, it expands the boundaries of what is possibe."

And you get the best out of your life....

courtesy Prajwal Hegde Times of India 12June2026

OVERHAUL FOOTBALL IN INDIA


Kota in Rajasthan is well known for its coaching centres. Students accompanied by their parents flock to Kota to prepare for entrance examinations and secure admission in the premier engineering and medical colleges in India. The parents leave everything behind and stay with their children to provide them support in the  endeavour of the children.

When the FIFA World Cup fever sweeps across the world India  has not made it to the tournament. India with a population of 1.47 billion - No. 1 in the world in population -  finds it extremely difficult to put together a team of footballers to compete with the best in the world. It is a tournament where 39 year old Lionel Messi scores a hatrick in the first game Argentina has played. It is a tournament where 40 year old Vozinha, the Cabo Verde goalkeeper, made 7 stellar saves to hold off tournament favourites Spain to a draw in the 90 minutes encounter. 

Indians truly lack the fighting spirit on the football field that they display at Kota.

Football in India is top heavy. The AIFF - All India Football Federation - does not know how to manage the game in India. Indian football is in need of a Kota like approach.

India at the moment is incomparable with debutants, Cabo Verde and Curacao, two teams whose exploits in the current World Cup far exceed expectations.

Cabo Verde with a population of 530000,  is an Island country and archipelago in the Central Atlantic Ocean off Western Africa.

In a thrilling game, they shocked  Spain, 2010 World Champions and current European Champions, with a goalless draw  

Curacao with a population of 158000, is an island  in the southern Caribbean Sea,  north of Venezuela. 

Curacao, rank outsiders, had shocked Germany and the entire world when they had scored the equaliser after Germany's first goal against them. Though they lost out 7 - 1 at the end, they showed they knew how to play the game.

Perhaps, India will be able to compete in the World Cup to be held four years from now if the AIFF is dismantled and Football is brought under the direct control of our dynamic Prime Minister who knows how to get things done. 

A drastic overhaul of football in India alone can raise the level of the game in India. Football must be nurtured from grassroot levels. Discover them young must be the constant call. 

If teams from a population of 530000 and 158000 can debut at the World Cup, it is apparent,  the team from a population of 1.47 billion can certainly make its debut there. 

Till it happens, we can draw solace from the happy news that four footballers of Indian origin are representing their adopted nations at the current tournament. 
Sarpreet Singh (New Zealand): An attacking midfielder of Punjabi descent, he made history by becoming the first player of Indian origin to start a FIFA World Cup match
Tahsin Mohammed Jamshid (Qatar): A 19-year-old winger born in Doha to parents from Kerala.
Nishan Velupillay (Australia): A 25-year-old winger of Tamil descent who made his World Cup debut for the Socceroos (Australian National Football Team).
Samuel Moutoussamy (DR Congo): A midfielder tracing roots to the Indian diaspora, representing the Congolese national team. He controlled the game in the match against Portugal.

It is obvious, we have the talent. But we have to emigrate.





LECTURES NOT THE BEST METHOD OF LEARNING

 

LECTURES NOT THE BEST METHOD OF LEARNING

ADAM GRANT
THINK AGAIN

Lectures are not always the best method of learning. They are not enough to develop students into lifelong learners. 

If you spend all of your school years being fed information and are never given the opportunity to question it you won't develop the tools for rethinking that you need in life.

While a boring lecture would fail, even captivating lectures can fall short for a less obvious, more valid reason.

Lectures aren't designed to accommodate dialogue or disagreement. They turn students into passive receivers of information rather than making them active thinkers. 

Lecturing becomes ineffective when it doesnot propel students to think.

True, lectures preach new thoughts. But they rarely aid the students in developing their own thinking process..

Charismatic speakers can put us under a spell. But we should be persuaded by the substance of an argument and not by its shiny packaging. 

Experiments have shown that when a speaker delivers an inspiring message, the audience scrutinizes the material less carefully and forgets the content, even  as  they claim they remember most of it.




Tuesday, June 16, 2026

CREDIT CARDS NOT FOR IMPULSIVE BUYERS

 

PRANAV SAKHADEO SHARES ON CREDIT CARDS

in Times of India 16June2026 


Money matters

First understand your income and expenses.

A credit card is not an income
It is not free money
It is not a tool
If there is no discipline credit cards are dangerous.
In the wrong hands it can become debt
In disciplined hands it can reduce the cost of everyday life

Making the most of every Rupee is just part of survival

You need buffers, planning and discipline.
Do not buy something simply because a card offer is available. 
Ask yourself whether you really need it.
Financial planning should become routine

Perhaps it may be a little boring

Never miss a credit card bill
Never pay interest for credit card purchases
Never withdraw cash from a credit card
Never spend beyond the avilable limit. 

You would be charged for going above the limit

Check your credit score intermittently
Keep your credit card utilisation low
This works only with discipline

Before a large purchase compare offline and online prices. 
Check bank offers and decide.
This is how the savings add up.

Not through a magical card, but through repeated small decisions

Choose cards according to your spending
Do not spend according to your cards

Review your cards whenever there a devaluation.

Credit Card devaluation happens when your card issuer reduces the value, perks, or rewards your card offers. It means you would receive fewer benefits than what was originally promised when you had signed up for the card, making it harder to obtain the same return on your spending. 


Do not accept all upgrade offers, if the card does not suit your spending pattern

Do not count fee waivers as savings. 
Treat them as cost control

Impulsive buyers, people who don't track bills, people who spend future income and expenses, people who use EMIs often, people who withdraw cash and people who shop just because an offer exists - these categories of people should not use credit cards at all.

If you wish to hold multiple credit cards, do not start with several at once.

At the beginning of every financial year, sit with your wife or your husband, if you are married and prepare a detailed expenses sheet. If you are not married please do it alone. Factor in inflation.

The annual planning takes about two hours.
After that daily spending mostly runs on autopilot.

Money certainly matters

Pranav holds  21 credit cards
Judicious deployment generates substantial savings
Avoids additional charges



 






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MUSIC COMPOSER PRITAM

 


Music Composer Pritam

Shares a reflective note on his 55th birthday on 14June2026


"Today, I have decided to gift myself a few years to live life differently. To catch up on what I have missed.

Time to set off on new journeys, which have been kept on the back burner for long. 

Mainstream is a great ride.

But I've always been more curious about the roads unexplored."

.....................

In this mad world where people hedge and nudge to go ahead, to be always on the ascent, to put down everyone else and strive to grow materially and impose their own stamp of hegemony over rest of the world, Music Composer Pritam chooses an untreaded path  many do not dare to traverse to enliven the future years his life .

 He is putting at rest his pursuit of worldly gain. 


Monday, June 15, 2026

ECOLOGY SUNDAY AT CSI CHRIST CHURCH TRIVANDRUM

 


It was Ecology Sunday at CSI Christ Church, Trivandrum on 14 June 2026.

The message at the Worship was delivered by a special guest. He is the son of  a great friend of ours.

We could observe that the young boy we knew was not a boy anymore. Evident was  the wonderful transformation in him. The articulation was flawless.

Since I did not have the contact information on the speaker, a message commending him with an evaluation was sent to  his father  who had promply  forwarded it to his son.

It is placed here.


"We see our children as little children only. We see them as the toddlers who had hung on to us, who had rested their heads over our shoulders and whom  we had led on.

When they grow up, when they come into their own, we fail at times to see that. 

We are afraid they'd falter at each and every step, and it makes us walk with them exerting an extra effort to steady them. 

We don't acknowledge they have grown up, they are grown ups.

If parents assert they are far removed from these emotions, I can only define them as hypocrites.

The youngster was very good in his presentation yesterday. It needed courage to stand at the lectern. It needs superhuman effort to open  the mouth and deliver the address to literally  an august audience whose combined IQ level is unimaginable.

He touched all the parameters effectively. The diction was excellent.

The topic was wide. The boundaries keep on shifting even as you delberate. 

Eco disruption is so familiar to each and everyone as we are reminded of it through events that occur abruptly and discourses that are lively or dull and drab.

Congratulations to the young man for the effort he took to prepare and the courage he displayed to deliver.

A critique has to navigate the horizon. 

The message was long.

10 or 15 minutes is the maximum you can command the attention.

There was no need to read out the verses of the song beginning with "All things bright and beautiful."

The relegation of the presentation of the activities of the ecology forum to the conclusive phase was an error in judgement.  It made the interest of the audience wane.

When you mention you are concluding, you have to wind up in one or two sentences. Unfortunately the conclusion was prolonged beyond that. 

He ought to have modulated the delivery of the message. It was monotone.  Monotone lulls the listeners into deep slumber. To counter this effectively, you have to read out the material you have prepared loudly in the privacy of the four walls of your own room at least four or five times. It makes you present your presentation confidently.

Messages become lively when they are linked to life. Quoting verses from the Bible extensively can only lengthen the speech. It does not convey.

Speakers fail when they fail to convey. What you convey has to reach the audience. 

What normally happens is, we are happy with our own presentation. But we can see with a look at the eyes of the audience or their responses, we are not reaching them. 

The effort goes in vain.

Recently a medical representative, a non Christian, whom I met casually, learning I was from KUTS, told me he passes by that campus everyday. He added the view from the road was beautiful - scenic beauty, something out of the world.

Ecology opens such doors. We just have to observe them and link them to our message. 

It makes the audience to walk with us.

Regret, I have loaded you with a drab discourse. 

Please forgive me for that.

Grateful for  your patience to stay this far."

ADAM GRANT ON THE BEST WAY

 

The best way 

to learn is 

to teach

ADAM GRANT ON GRADES

 

Grades are never 

a strong predictor 

of job performance

ADAM GRANT ON EXTRAORDINARY EDUCATORS

 

Extraordinary educators

foster rethinking cycles 

by instilling intellectual humility. 

It disseminate  doubts 

and cultivate curiosity.

ADAM GRANT ON FOCUS OF LEARNING

 

Learning has to be focussed 

less on being right 

and more on building the skills 

to consider different views 

and argue productively about them.

Saturday, June 13, 2026

ADAM GRANT ON LECTURES

 ADAM GRANT ON LECTURES

IN

THINK AGAIN


Lectures are not always the best method of learning. They are not enough to develop students into lifelong learners.


If you spend all your student days being fed information and are never given the opportunity to question it, you won't develop the tools for rethinking that you need in life.

Valedictorian

 Valedictorian      

             

valɪdɪkˈtɔːriən


A valedictorian is the highest-ranking academic student in graduating class. Typically selected based on having the highest Grade Point Average (GPA), this student is awarded the honor of delivering the farewell speech (the "valedictory" address) at the graduation ceremony.


Etymology and Origin


Latin Roots: 


The term originates from the Latin phrase vale dicere, which simply translates to "to say farewell".


Tradition: 


The practice dates back to 1750 at Harvard University, where the student chosen to deliver the farewell was initially selected for their speaking ability to keep ceremonies entertaining, before it became strictly an academic award.


How They Are Chosen


While GPA is the primary metric in high schools and colleges across North America, the selection process can sometimes factor in other achievements that the Institutions might consider.

POPE LEO

 


Pope Leo


Life is not a race to show off on our own, but a path we learn to walk together.


Anyone who doesnot know how to live with  and for others has not yet understood life.

Wednesday, June 10, 2026

RELATIONSHIPS

 


We were born in the 1950s.

We grew up in the 1950s and 1960s. They were decades of shortages. No one had anything except a few. The nation had just woken up into independence on August 15, 1947. The British had left after dividing India into two nations. It triggered a violent strife that killed  200000 to 2 million of the population of undivided India.  It was quite unfortnate that the partition of the country  into India and Pakistan had been accompanied  by mass violence and refugee crisis of  unprecedented levels the world had never experienced before. The chaotic period had displaced an estimated 12 to 15 million people as they fled across the newly drawn borders.

In that era of unfulfilled desires, people had somehow survived. The members of the families had bonded together with love and affection. They slept on the floor on mats. The kitchen was always busy where all the women in the house had exerted themselves together. Men would go out to work in the fields. Since there had been no other option people lived in joint families. They were happy though they didn't have enough. It was  an agrarian economy.

Gradually the scene shifted. Job opportunities at different locations in the state or country or even abroad broke up the joint families. People moved out to wherever they were employed. However the family ties were so strong that all of them had made it a point to come together on holidays or vacations at the family house. For a couple of weeks it would be just  like the good old days before they had left for greener pastures 

Tourism of those days were visits to the places where members of the family stayed in various localities due to their posting there. The children looked forward to such visits as they brought them closer. It made family ties stronger. People were more than willing to help each other in times of need. They welcomed visitors, be it relatives, friends or at times even total strangers wholeheartedly to their households. Sharing and caring were the essence of relationships. 

Then we awoke into the 1970s, 1980s.and 1990s.  It was the Gulf. US. Europe. Anywhere. Everywhere.  Emigration was on in a large scale. The economy became dependent on foreign inward remittances, not to forget money orders from locations within the country. Though unemployment was very high, there was improvement in job opportunities within the country.

It was the dawn of nuclear families. With that, joint families were disrupted. They are now almost extinct.   

Now no one welcome anyone. You are not expected to stay when you make visits. The first question that you invariably face is, "When did you arrive?" 

The next is quite interesting. "When are you leaving?"

Between these two questions, you get the silent message that you have no place there. At the best, you would be offered tea or coffee or soft drinks and a few biscuits. You are expected to leave soon after that. In case you mention that you don't take the drink placed before you and request for a glass of plain hot water, you can be certain that it would reach you after 45 minutes. The message is explicit. "You are not welcome."

Relationships have lost their place in human lives. You secure yourselves within the four walls. Except for your own nuclear family, you don't think of anyone else.

No one cares. No one shares.






MISSIONARY AT BANDIREVU BHADRACHALAM

There were two eminent personalities in an organisation, one senior and one junior.

Initially the senior went around telling everyone that the junior had  a very low pay. Then the junior left. Afterwards the senior went around telling everyone he had a very low pay. The senior too  left  later.

Now listen to the story of Sreekanth. He has been posted as a missionary at:

CSI Bhadrachalam Mission 

Mission compound, Bandirevu, Bandirevu. P. O Nellipakka, Bhadrachalam, Telangana

Pin. 533352

He is awaiting the results of the BD exam he wrote in April 2026.

He had been working in the mission field before he enrolled for  the BD course.

He may be ordained as a Pastor in about two months. The salary he expects is Rs.12000.00 per month

The mission he has joined is sponsored by the Women's Fellowship of the CSI South Kerala Diocese.

When he reported at the mission, the previous missionary had left on transfer for higher studies. The mission house is a two room kitchen, sheeted house. Adjacent to it, there is a sheeted church. 

The mission runs an approved English Medium UP School. It has students upto 6th standard.

The temperature at the place is 47 degree. 

Sreekanth has a co-worker from Vellarada who is new to the Mission field.

The mission has two cabs to bring children to the school. 

When Sreekanth reached there, the vehicles could not be started as the batteries were down. Further, one of the vehicles, eaten away by rust, is unserviceable.

There are teachers at the School. But they have to be compensated with a decent salary.

A compound wall enclosing the area is absolutely essential as the School is populated by children. Their safety is paramount.

They have a local market around 7kms away. Bhadrachalam at 40kms is the nearest place for major supplies.

The missionaries cook their food. There is no Fridge. It means the left overs  cannot be preserved for consumption later.

Sreenath has no complaints. He says God will take care. He expects his first salary after one month of reporting at the mission.

He has left his wife and two daughters at his house at Dhanuvachapuram. The wife is unemployed. She has a chronic back ache for which she gets admitted off and on for addressing the ailment. The girls have been enrolled at a primary school close to the residence. 

Sreekanth reached the mission on a Friday. He had a day to clean up the Church for worship. While cleaning up he encountered a black cobra that he had to dipose off.

The worship was conducted in Telugu, a language in which he is not proficient. But technology helped him traverse the issue.

There is a bore well that provides hard water. He buys drinking water.

River fish and meat are available along with vegetables in the local market.

A mason charges Rs.1300.00 per day and the assistant Rs.1000.00 per day for masonry work.

Sreekanth is cheerful.He is happy he had a stint in the mission field earlier. He says it had taken him to Kashmir, Kulu Manali and many other places.

Sreekanth is happy he has chosen to serve the Lord. 

He maintains God will lead him on, in his journey.






MASSIVE HEART ATTACK AND 100% BLOCK IN ALL ARTERIES

The wife, a very close relative, wrote:

"My huband is in a very bad situation. He had a massive heart attack and is hospitalized 100%block in all arteries. They put one stent on. They got a heartbeat for a while.

 I am in the hospital waiting room"

(The husband is an excellent gentleman)

Concerned, I wrote to her.

"When Papa had a Cardiac arrest, soon after Prostratectomy  in June 1980, the doctor said he'd be gone in half an hour at the most.

He was 62.

After CPR he was  on the Ventilator for 48 hours.

When the doctor said half an hour, it was around 10 pm that night.

I sat on the floor outside. 

Medical College Hospital, Trivandrum.

B-Theatre - no benches or seats there - and I began praying. 

I prayed just one sentence repeatedly staying awake the whole night.

"Daivame ente Papa ye ee rathri kondupokaruthe"

(Oh God, please don't take away my Papa, this night)

I could have been naive. But a thought, a crazy one, was in me. That God would let him be in this world if Papa had survived till 6 am  the next morning.

The supplication was relentless 

Morning around 8 AM next day, word was, he was alive. 

The doctor told me there was some improvement.

God gave him back

He lived on 28 years.

Miracle.

I understood one thing. 

God acts at the right time.

To this day, it has been true in my life, our life.

It will be in yours too."

Wednesday, June 3, 2026

A LEAF FROM LIFE

                  

                    A LEAF FROM LIFE


Papa had retired from KDHP CoLtd - it was James Finlay for a while - on 31January1975.
We left Munnar on 30 January 1975.

Papa's retirement had led the family into a turmoil. Unfortunately Mummy had passed away in 1978. As Papa was staying alone in our house at Thalavady, we had applied for a telephone connection at the house for accessing him through phone. Several years went by. The phone connection did not materialise. Exasperated we withdrew the application. It was BSNL or its predecessor.

Years later when Laji with his family was staying with Papa, they felt acutely the necessity of a telephone connection at home. An application for the connection was submitted again. In about two years the phone was allotted and it was installed at our house in no time.

The fun began there.

Those were the days when mobile phone was yet to make its entry in the country. But there was a solace. One could access anyone in the country through the STD (Subscriber Trunk Dialling) facility. It had made communication smooth and fast.

Earlier one had to book a call at the local telephone exchange. You would be placed in the waiting list. They would put your call through when you move up in the queue and reach the number one slot on the waiting list. It was a cumbersome procedure where you might have to wait for pretty long a time.

Naturally, when you make STD calls your telephone bill would leap frog.

The question is, when you obtain a telephone connection after a long wait, what would a sane person do. In the normal run, he would surprise his dear ones and friends with calls from the newly installed phone.

I just wonder, who gave the odd idea to Papa. 

He took out several Inland Letter forms and wrote out to everyone - son, daughter, relatives and friends - that he had been allotted a new telephone connection and that the phone had been installed at the house. He inscribed the phone number in the letter. Fortunately there was a letter box in front of our house and it meant he did not have to walk far to post  the Inland Letters.

Then he sat at  home.

He was happy, many of the people on receipt of the Inland letters had phoned him up.

At home, in Trivandrum, we had all been busy with our heavy schedules. We expected Papa to ring us up from Thalavady, expressing his happinsee on the obtention of the new telephone connection. Phones at home were a rarity at that time.

After a while, when there had not been any phone call from Papa we surmised he was not going to call us from his new phone.

We called him. He was full of rancour. He said he had advised many people that he had a telephone installed in his house and they were  provided  the number. He had a grouse that I was the only person who did not call him at once though I was his son. He was very angry.

I kept quiet. I didn't know what to make of it. As I looked at it, being his son, Papa ought to have called me on the phone the moment it was installed.

Those days telephones were a luxury. People were overjoyed when they were allotted a phone connection.

I told Papa when I met him later, instead of writing a letter inscribing the phone number,  how wonderful it would have been if he had surprised me with a call from the new phone.

Well, Papa kept an iconic inscrutable face and the issue ended there.




WAITING FOR A TABLE PATIENTLY AT HOTEL ARYANIVAS THAMPANOOR TRIVANDRUM

                                                     WAITING FOR A TABLE PATIENTLY  
                                                                               AT 
                                                                 HOTEL ARYANIVAS 
                                                                    THAMPANOOR
                                                                    TRIVANDRUM

                                                    They serve excellent vegetarian dishes 

                                                  You need to wait fifteen to twenty minutes 

                                                                       for a place 




Tuesday, June 2, 2026

KNOWLEDGE

 



Evana was getting ready to catch her school bus. It was 8am. As she was hurrying it up, I said, it would have been good if she didn't have to go to school. She could stay at home and do whatever she felt like doing.

She's eight. It is the second day of the new academic year. She's in the third standard, ICSE, St.Thomas Residential School, Mukkola, Trivandrum.

Evana replied, " No, I must go to the School."

I needled her, "Why do you go to the School?"

She quietly replied, "For knowledge."

It made me look at my years in the school and the college.

I don't know about others, but I never knew why I had been going to the school and the college. But I perceive many of my contemporaries - not everyone - had similar sentiments.

In fact I had hated to go to the school and the college.

I never knew I was being forced to proceed to the college and the school to acquire knowledge. No one ever told me that either.

It had been a journey sans focus.

Every year I had been promoted to the next level. It went on till I completed my degree.

Yes, the focus of education must be the acquisition of knowledge. 

And nothing else

I have to admit, it took 54 years and an 8 year old girl to teach me the true meaning of education.




Monday, June 1, 2026

VIJAYALAKSHMI OF THE KERALA UNIVERSITY OFFICE

 


VIJAYALAKSHMI OF THE KERALA UNIVERSITY OFFICE

Lila conveyed to me a very sad news when she came home from office one evening Ms.Vijayalakshmi had succumbed to grievous injuries she had sustained when the scooter she was riding was hit by a bus. The unfortunate accident had occured at the Kumaranasan Roundabout in front of the Kerala University Office at Palayam,  Thiruvananthapuram.

It had been a surprise to me when I observed Vijayalakshmi arriving at the Kerala University Office riding her Lampy Scooter in the early 1980s.She wore Kurti and pant as a saree clad woman could not ride that scooter. Of course, Sarees were the fashion for women across Kerala and Kurti and pant were considered alien and obscene  at that time. 

The Kinetic Honda revolution that launched the female population on to the roads of Trivandrum was yet to take off.  Vijayalakshmi was more or less the single woman on a two wheeler those days.

Vijayalakshmi was an employee of the Kerala University at its office. She was a spinster. She was pretty happy that way. She was conscientious. She never compromised on her work.

The Lunch recess was the time when the women employees got together in a hall. Vijayalakshmi was the livewire in that assembly. They would play carroms, cards or chit chat at that hour. 

Vijayalakshmi was certainly versatile. She played tennis.  She loved sports and games.  She had been there with a whistle at the annual sports meets of the University staff. She was into coaching as well. She used to accompany the teams when they travelled to any other place.. 

It was retirement for her  when she attained 55 years in age. But as she was single, she would reach the office at the lunch hour to meet her friends and participate in the games. It was contentment for her.

When she had been working at the Kerala University Office, the entire traffic at Palayam was routed straight to the LMS Junction. Later recurring traffic snarls had made the planners reroute the traffic from the VJT Hall to proceed past the University Library and take the Kumaranasan round about towards the fly over that skirted the Chandrasekhran Nair Stadium and reach the main thoroughfare in front of the Mascot Hotel. The arrangement had been brought about to relieve the pressure of traffic at the Palayam Junction.

Vijayalakshmi, perhaps, could have been unfamiliar with the revised traffic arrangement that had not been there while she had been working at the Kerala University Office. As everyone knows, human mind finds it extremely difficult  to absorb changes that occur out of the blue. Poor Vijayalakshmi was a victim of the traffic reforms that were instituted to benefit the public.

Vijayalakshmi had been a trend setter while she had been alive. Riding her scooter to reach her office, she had revolutionized the thinking of the women and the society. She showed that women could accomplish whatever men did. She had proved women were a force that could not be written off as weak and meek. While women  driving vehicles or riding scooters are not a novelty today, it had been unbelievable those days. No one believed that women could accomplish such a feat. What Vijayalakshmi had done was, she  had dismantled the traditional and restrictive age old gender barriers that had imprisoned the women of her time. She had successfully unlocked the potential of unfettered freedom for the women in this part of the world. 

A walk around the Kerala University Office, today would tell us through the neat rows of two wheelers and cars driven by the women employees, that it was Vijayalakshmi who had energised them to reach for the stars. 

It is Carte blanche for them today.