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Monday, March 16, 2026

When speech development takes the slow lane

 


We were concerned when Elvin at 18 months lagged in speech development. A friend advised us to be patient. According to her some children were like that.

I wrote to her recently

Elvin turned two on 13March2026.

We held a lunch get-together on 14thMarch to celebrate. It was confined to close relatives. His maternal grandparents joined us travelling all the way from Kadammanitta.

It was a happy experience.

In the evening, at the close of family prayer time, he joined everyone blurting out 'Amen,' that marks the conclusion.

The past couple of days he had been talking in his own language that he alone could decipher. But in between Amma and Appa comes out occasionally.

When I related speech development was slow to my younger brother, his response was, Elvin's father also had been like that.

But those were the days we both were on a mad race and where personal matters had always faded away into insignificance.

And no one had bothered about such trivial issues either those days.

It was your genuine concern for the child that made me  put the foot down and and decree a cooling period till he reached three as advised by Dr. Abraham, the richly experienced Paediatrician.

The child shows a high level of intelligence. He indulges in activities we suggest. He displays his affection vehemently. He runs around. The vision and hearing are sharp. Looks up at the faint sound when someone opens the gate. Displays his emotions. He conveys in his own way what he wants and he manages to land that.

I just wonder what would have happened if your advice hadn't come at the right moment.

Managing children is ok. But managing the mother who is much concerned is indeed  a tough proposition as her concern is genuine.

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Sunday, March 15, 2026

D ZACHARIA OR DR. DANIEL ZACHARIA OR THAMPIKUTTYCHAYAN

 


D ZACHARIA

Abey, my cousin, rings me up from Tiruvalla, at 8.57 am on 12th March2026. I couldn't attend the call. Later at 10.53am I responded, when I located the missed call. Abey tells me our Zacharia Sir had passed away this morning. He queried, didn't Laji achachan convey the news to you. I replied,"He must have been busy." I wondered why Laji didn't do that.

It was a shock to me. We had known him well. We knew who he really had been.

We had met at the time of Sandeep's marriage. Sandeep is Laji's son.

Our next meeting was at the residence of the Principal's Quarters, KUT Seminary, Kannammoola, where I was the Honorary Treasurer. I still am. His wife, Lissy ammamma, was with him. 

Rev.Dr. M.P Joseph, the Principal had invited me to partake in a family function and lunch thereafter. Thampikuttychayan or D. Zacharia or Dr.Daniel Zacharia (Homoeo Doctor) was the eldest brother in law of M.P.Joseph Achen. 

Lunch over, we conversed for sometime. I invited him to visit my place. I said it was only 2 km. He agreed to the suggestion at once. But he revealed to me he had to visit Palapur where he was helping Mr.Rajendran,who was blind to build a house. He said though Rajendran was a practicing advocate, his means were paltry. He had assessed the economic status through independent enquiries.

Thampikuttychayan told me that helping the homeless to build houses had been an activity he had begun from age 15. He had already done this for a large number of people across Kerala. To my question how managed the funding, he replied apart from delving into his own resources,  many of his contacts had been generously and voluntarily topping up his requirements on this front.

He said though he was staying at Elavumthitta, the needy often flocked to his residence. If he was convinced over the genuineness, he would unplug  and stretch himself to assist them.

He just couldn't fathom how Rajendran from South Kerala had landed up at his place one day. However, once he had listened, he was convinced Rajendran deserved assistance to build his house. Thampikuttychayan had travelled in his own car to Palapur and had a look the property. Since the brother of Rajendran, who had been a mason as well as a contractor, was staying in the adjacent property, Thampikuttychayan had entrusted the construction of the house to him.

But this brother had other ideas. He wanted to siphon off the money, Thampikuttychayan was providing for the construction of the house. He had a feeling the benefactor was flush with money from abroad. He wanted to have a bite for himself.

Well, Thampikuttychayan and his wife came to our place in their own car. I drove ahead. We had some pleasant moments at home. It enabled me to have a peep into the life of this wonderful person. I felt he was the elephant and I, just an ant. No way, comparable

He invited me to travel to Palapur in his car, a Hyundai Santro, and talked Lila into joining us.It was very difficult to say 'no' to him.

At Palapur, Rajendran and his wife were waiting for Thampikuttychayan. 

The status of the construction shocked us. Though money had been poured in, that was enough to have completed the construction, it was just half way. We climbed on to the terrace. We were warned the floor was slippery and we could easily fall if we were not careful. There was a side show in the form of the brother of Rajendran. He was displaying a tantrum and throwing abuses at the driver of Thampikuttychayan for parking the car in front of his boundary wall on the public road.  Thampikuttychyan took it lightly.

Thampikuttychayan said he wanted to somehow complete the construction. He was disinterested to let Rajendran's brother carry on. While we stood on the terrace, a name popped up in my mind. Finney C Varghese. Finney is a contractor. He is my friend. He is a person who delivers. I spoke to Thampikuttychayan about Finney. He accepted Finney at once and requested me to contact Finney and revert.

At night, I contacted Finney. Though reluctant initially, Finney consented when I oriented him on the greatness of Thampikuttychayan. 

Within a few days, Thampikuttychayan came again to take Finney to the site. Finney said he would complete the construction in three months. Thampikuttychayan assured him not to ponder on fund flow.

Finney kept his word. Thampikuttichayan kept his word.

Finney later told me, Zacharia Sir used to catch a bus on the MC Road and reach his house at 7 am whenever Finney wanted replenishment of funds for the construction. He said he was amazed as Zacharia Sir was around 78 years in age  at that time and to reach Finney's place at 7 am he must have been catching the bus at least at 4am. 

I asked Thampikuttychayan how he managed to reach the MC Road at that early hour. The reply was quite surprising. He said he had a ramshackle scooter that he rode to the MC Road from his house 10 km away. When I asked where he would leave the scooter, the reply was, 'on the pavement.' When I enquired,"Won't anyone take it away," he had laughed it off. He said who wanted such a lousy scooter.

Finally, the date  for the house warming was set. Thampikuttychayan was invited. Finney was invited. I too was.

The house warming was conducted by the Bishop A Dhramaraj Rasalam, Bishop of the CSI South Kerala Diocese. The previous day we were together at the meeting of the Governing Council of the KUT Seminary, Kannammoola. He was surprised to see me at Palapur. 

After the ceremony was over, the Bishop made a short speech. He said he was happy Rajendran could complete the construction of his house overcoming two major handicaps, that he was blind and that he was badly off financially. The Bishop said, as far as he knew two persons were behind the completion of the house, one, a well known doctor and two, the Treasurer of the KUT Seminary.

Blindness never had dissuaded Rajendran from going ahead in life. If necessary, he had no inhibition in meeting the Chief Minister of the State. As we stood there, waiting for the arrival of the Bishop, two blind friends of Rajendran had come in an autoriksha. Knowing they were blind, the driver demanded a hefty sum from them. Rajendran was standing there. He shouted at the driver, "Are you trying to cheat the blind?' 

The driver took whatever they gave and drove off.

While we were travelling to Palapur, Thampikuttychayan had revealed another phase of his life. He said after completion of his Homoeo Course he had set up a hospital at Nallanikunnu. There were in patients as well. Many of them were destitutes. He said whenever he found  abandoned persons he used to take them to the hospital. He had cared for them,  cleaning them up himself at times.

As things were working well, he had a close call. When he consulted CMC Vellore, they had told him his heart needed surgery that would cost Rs.10.00 lakhs. He said he had approached his own church. He had told them he would let the church take over the hospital and the prime property if they would give him the money he needed for the surgery. The Church was agreeable to take over the Hospital and the property, for free. 

Exsperated, he had contacted Bishop Zacharias Mar Theophilus of the MarThoma Church and related his predicament. The Bishop in turn contacted a few pastors of the MarThoma Churches around the area. The outcome was electric. The amount Thampikuttychayan had sought was ready. It was transferred to his account. The property was transferred to the MarThoma Church through the execution of documents.

Recently he had told me, the Marthoma Church had informed him that the hospital he had handed over, was the Jewel among all  their facilities in the area. Quite a large number of people were benefitted by the services rendered there. 

He had divulged an unsavoury incident related to his effort to mobilise funds for his treatment.

An individual on learning that the property was up for sale had contacted him and had offered to buy it at any price he desired. Thampikuttychayan declined the offer, telling him that he had intended to sell it to church related institutions only. The reply was a barrage of abusive language. But he had held on.

The Bishop of the CSI Madhya Kerala Diocese had entrusted him to develop the  dilapidated Bungalow at the Monroe Island to a facility for the blind. The assignment was challenging. He was growing in age. He had physical limitations. The place was far away from his residence. But he was game.

He would leave his house very early in the morning on his favourite scooter and reach the MC Road. He would leave the scooter on the pavement. Then he would catch a KSRTC bus upto a point. He would catch a private bus to another point. Another private bus would take him to his destination. He would look after his job there, the whole day. In the evening it was the journey in the reverse direction. He would carry on with all the modes of traffic he took  in the morning to return to his place.  The cycle would be repeated the next day and the next day till he had completed the work at Monroe Island.

There is another anecdote he had shared with me. 

He had donated a good sum to his Church for utilising in any new project the church proposed. The church was truthful. They didn't propose any new project. But they kept the amount in balance sheets after balance sheets as donation from D.Zacharia for a new prject.

While he was struggling to source funds for the Monroe Island Project, he submitted a request to the Church. It was for releasing the accummulated interest on the amount he had donated towards the work at Monroe Island. The request was considered by the Church Committee. One senior member of the Committee had  blurted out his views that was accepted by the committee. "Avante paisa muzhuvan thirichu koduthekanam. Nammude balance sheet il ninnum oru entry illathakumallo." (Let us pay back his donation in full. Our balnce sheet will not be burdened by this entry anymore)

I didn't tell him, the callousness I felt was the cause of the decay in the church. 

He said he had no complaints

While he had toiled hard for the church and christain activities - he was very active in the Bible Society -  he never forsake his profession. He provided succour to his countless patiens.

He was a voracious reader. He wrote articles in the publications of the church. The latest I read him was on 3rd March 2026 in the Gurupadantikam, daily devotion.  He had dwelt on 'ennile 'njan' bhavam.'. He closed it singing,

"njan varunnu krusingal
sadhu ksheenan kurudan" 

It was prophetic.
He left us on 12th march 2026

The funeral is schduled on 16th March 2026 at the CSI St. Paul's Church, Nallanikunnu at      2pm

I had begun with Abey.  Abey is based at Tiruvalla and Thalavady. He is the son of Achenkunjachayan, my uncle, who always lived for others. Abey follows his father in word and deed. He told me he wanted to help Ponnamma, who was homeless, build a house. I suggested that he should contact D.Zacharia who had been very active on such missions. Abey later told me, the moment he contacted D Zacharia, he had remitted Rs.10000.00 for the purpose. In fact that had been the first contribution. It energised Abey. When Ponnamma's house was completed, D Zacharia and his wife were present at the house warming ceremony.

Finding the obit news in the  Malayala Manorama of 13th Macrh2026, I rang up Laji. Laji was apolegetic. He said he had somehow missed to convey the sad news. When I enquired on the cause of death, Laji related an extraordinary tale.

Thampikuttychayan was unwell for a few days. When he met the doctors, after evaluation, they had told him, there was a shrinkage in the heart's valve (aortic valve stenosis). According to them, a pace maker was the sole answer. Thampikuttychayan was firm. He said he didn't wish to go under the knife anymore. He asked how much the pace maker would cost. Rs.4.00lakhs was the reply. What he did after that was some thing no sane man would ever do. He gifted the amount, Rs.4.00 lakhs, to a homeless person to build his house. 

He breathed his last quietly at the Fellowship Hospital at Kumbanad on 12th March2026, early morning.

He lived all his life to build homes for the homeless. He died building home for the homeless.

Jesus Christ lived in him. He lived for Jesus Christ.

He was unknown. He was well known

It is people like Thampikyttychayan, who show us how we should live.

Caring, sharing, caring, sharing

Dearest Thampikuttychayan, not only us, but a host of people throughout the length and breadth of Kerala would miss you

Like I wrote to his younger brother

"He was indeed a wonderful personality

He followed Jesus Christ in word and deed

Emulate him we all  must

But a very difficult  call"

I would add just two words

'WE CAN"

That's exactly what he wants from us.

 




Saturday, March 14, 2026

SANJU SAMSON MADE BY ARABIAN SEA

 

For Sanju Samson, the rhythms of cricket and the echo of sea are always intertwined. 

His outlook on success and failure were shaped by the unpredictable mood of the Arabian Sea and the daily departure of boats from the fishing hamlet of Vizhinjam. He grew up watching fishermen push their boats into the sea before dawn. Some days the nets returned heavy with fish. Some days they came back almost empty. But the next morning the boats would head out again. 

That cycle of hope, disappointment and persistence left a deep impression on young Sanju. His maternal grandfather, Anthonis, used to tell him, "You can't control the sea. You can only control how prepared you are when you go out. Some days you come back with nothing. But you still wake up the next morning and go again."

Life at sea had hardened Anthonis. The qualities he had passed on to his grandson were,  resilience, humility and the ability to remain grounded regardless of success. Anthonis taught Sanju to face stoically, both successes and failures. For Anthonis, failure was not an end. He advised Sanju not to be disheartened when opportunities slipped away as fast as they appeared.

Sanju was captivated by his granfather's stories about life at the ocean. There were sudden storms, narrow escapes and long nights at the Sea. They stirred his imagination.

Sanju Samson's  personality is restrained. He is calm and composed. He rarely shows anger or emotion during matches. His journey is defined by patience and gradual growth. His temperament had been shaped long ago on the shores of Vizhinjam. There, the fishermen know that success in life  is never guaranteed.  And that the Sea must be faced again the next morning,

Sanju was born on November 11, 1994. Hardwork and humility have always been his signature. Even as a teenager he had been really focussed. He went on long practice sessions without complaint. He was imbibed with the hunger to keep on practising. He was willing to listen and improve from his younger days

Sanju remains the same humble person even now. He is willing to listen and improve. Fame has not altered him. 

To Sanju, Cricket resembles the Sea  he grew up with  - unpredictable, unforgiving and impossible to control. Like the fishermen he had once observed  from the shore, Sanju has learned that the only thing one can do is prepare, go out and try again and try again.    ...........................

Excerpts from Times of India of 12 March 2026,  narrative by Krishnachand. K.                          ...........................

I have little more to add.

I had been employed at Valiathura during 1979 - 1980. The office was quite close to the Valiathura Pier. Whenever there were breaks, I used to frequent the Pier. The Pier had been built to commence Port operations at Valiathura. However labour issues had thrown the operations out of gear. The Pier stood there, extended into the Arabian Sea. Quite a lot of tourists would saunter along the bridge upto the last point. You could watch the waves lash the pillars on its final heaves to the shore. It was beautiful. It was terrifying. If you are lucky, you would be slightly drenched by the showers from an unruly wave. I watched the fishermen crouch and  extend their lines from  the fishing rods into the sea and catch the fish. There were large number of  buyers for the fresh fish. 

But what astounded me was the Catamarans. They were brought on vehicles upto the final point beyond which it was only the sea. The Catamarans were fully loaded. It had the fishing net, fuel and.provisions. I could see, one fisherman jumping into the sea with a rope tied around his waist and with the other end attached to the Catamaran. Then the Catamaran would be dropped into the sea by a few experienced fishermen who were adept in the operation. Once the Catamaran was in the sea, the second fisherman would jump with a rope attached to his waist as well as the Catamaran. The two fishermen in the sea would steady the Catamaran, climb on it and begin paddling it away with their oars.. They would release the sail if the wind was right. 

They chose the pier because they could avoid the strong waves that lashed the shores, to step out into the sea.  The Catamarans would proceed to where they could have a good catch. At night while standing on the shore, the lights you view at distance in the sea, would be from the large number of boats out on fishing.

The fishermen would cast their nets in the sea and would return with their catch the next day. When the boats return, it would take more than an hour to draw the fishing net in, laden with the catch.

The manner in which the fishermen fought the elements to make a living had left a lasting impression on me.

I was filled with empathy when I had a customer with two holes in place of his nose. The nose was simply not there. When I enquired what had happened, he revealed that a Catamaran had hit him on his face while at Sea.

It made me understand why the fishermen community were firm believers in God. They are fighters all the way. They know very well,the unpredictability life expounds. But they would fight all the time till they succeed. They never give up. 

Sanju Samson is no different.









Friday, March 13, 2026

MITIGATING BREAST CANCER RISK

 

Latest studies reveal that lifestyle and diet hold keys to reducing breast cancer risk

Recently a 38 year old corporate professional was diagnosed with breast camcer. She had no direct family history. But her lifestyle had thrown up several red flags.

"She had a sedentary work routine, an improper eating schedule and frequently relied on UPF (Ultra processed foods), apart from regular alcohol intake and occasional smoking."

She is currently undegoing chemotherapy with a surgery to be planned in due course.

It is the broader dietary patterns that appear to influence cancer growth.

"High consumption of red and processed meat, UPFs and refined carbs, along with low intake of fibre, fruits and vegetables can promote chronic inflammation, insulin resistance and hormonal imbalance, all of which are known contributors to cancer surge."

The link between breast cancer incidence, mortality and unhealthy dietary habits is becoming more and more evident.

"Healthier diets, regular physical activity, maintaining normal body weight and limiting alcohol consumption could significantly reduce the future breast cancer burden."
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Excerpts from report in Times of India of 12th March 2026

FINANCIAL STRATEGY AND STATECRAFT

 


Classic Financial Strategy and Statecraft have resounding similarities.

Here, you have to be led by, "Judge the transaction on offer. Don't go by some abstract philosophy or friendship or a greater principle."

"Hedge where necessary, take exposure where there is an opportunity, cut losses quickly, diversify aggressively with no emotional commitments to any position."