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Friday, May 22, 2026

ARSENAL WORLD'S BEST WHEN OFF THE BALL

 


Luis Enrique, head coach, Paris St Germain has ravished praise on Arsenal ahead of this month's Champion's League final, dubbing them the best team in the world without the ball.

"We've got experience of playing against Mikel Arteta's Arsenal, and we know how good they are on the ball," he said.

"Off the ball they are the best team in the world, no doubt it. With the ball they are capable of scoring plenty of goals. And it’s only natural to see them in the final. It'll be a very tough finaI. I think we are in for a cracking final."

INSURANCE ADVISER

INSURANCE ADVISER

He is Sam Philip. He is a general insurance adviser. He provides yeoman service to his clients. 

We became acquainted in the year 2005.  It was for my vehicle's insurance. The service was superb. He delivered the policy at my house. When the policy was up for renewal, he ensured that it had been renewed in time. When there was a claim, he did everything for the disbursal of the amount claimed. His dedication had often made him go for the extra mile.

Later, I referred him to my friends and my sons. There was no let up. He extended similar service to all of them. He kept them all happy. My elder son once told me no one would provide the exceptional  service  Sam provided. He should know, for he himself was no stranger to the insurance business.

On the 15th of May 2026, Sam delivered the renewed insurance policy for our Maruti Swift at my home.

I presented him a copy of the book, A WALK THROUGH THE RAIN, a collection of my own blogposts published by the KUT Seminary, Kannammoola, Trivandrum and told him  that whatever it made was for them. I advised him in case he wished to  make any contribution, it may be remitted to the publisher as I was grateful to them for launching me as an author.

Sam replied he would do that later as he had recently donated Rs.5.00 lakh for the renovation of his own Church. He added he had felt his contribution was insufficient. It conveyed his greatness as I knew he was not rich. 

I could see emotions welling up on his face. He reminisced. He said, when he had invited me for his house- warming ceremony, he had requested me to bring nothing else but a book as a gift. Suddenly, I remembered. I felt guilty I didn't respond to his suggestion for years together. But Sam was magnanimous. He said he was accepting this book in lieu of the delayed gift.

It was 3.45pm. He had to be at the bank before 4.00pm to collect the cash for the premium he had remitted on my behalf. I reminded him he had to move fast.

But he stood there. He said he had to tell me something else before he left. He conveyed he had always loved to spend sometime with me whenever he had called at my residence for  business. According to him, he had always gained something from the discussions on his visits.

He revealed that several years ago on one of his visits, I had suggested that he ought to open a PPF - Public Provident Account - account with any Branch of SBI of his choice and make periodic remittances to the account. He recollected, I had explained that it was a 15 year deposit scheme with a handsome rate of interest and income tax incentives along with an option to renew it at 5 year intervals  on  maturity. 

He said he went for the PPF as he was not a member of any pension scheme. He had felt he should have access to a sizeable sum when he reached 56 years of age that had been the retirement age for government servants in Kerala. I was happy when he mentioned the PPF account had a credit balance of Rs.22.00 lakhs inclusive of accumulated interest. 

Sam said he had planned to visit me when the balance reached Rs.25.00 lakhs, but he had thought this was the right time to tell me the happy news. 

He parted and in ten minutes the message of debit to the account came up on my phone.

As he left, I told Lila that it had been more than 20 years since Sam had come into our lives. He was never hesitant to extend his services even in  the tortuous days of Covid. I remembered the funeral of his mother I had attended. The whole family had been immersed in grief. His son could not hold back the tears that flowed.

I was indeed happy my advice didnot go in vain. I recalled, in a long span of three and a half decades there had been many people like Sam in my life who had profited by my suggestions. They were mostly financial as I had been a banker. But many of them deviated from the banking sphere. They extended across issues people were grappling with in real life. 

I am happy they have learned from me. I am happy I have learned from them.

The gain has been mutual.

Thursday, May 21, 2026

REWRITE THE STORY OF NEEDY OLDER PEOPLE

 

Retirement from the job if one is employed has been the most defining moment in the life of an individual. In the US, it is escape from work, from cold and from obligation. It takes you to a life of Golf and time with grandchildren.

In India, it could be the demotion to the back bedroom of the eldest son's home or elsewhere. No one values you anymore.

A recent study unveils that by 2047 there will be more people in the world over 60, with more money and education than any other time in history than children under 15. It further states that the longevity economy is already enormous enough to be the third largest after US and China.

With people over 60 becoming increasingly fitter, wealthier and full of zest for life, the  indication is that the story of needy older people needs to be revised. However, for much of human history, retirement had not been in existence. Old age was the final and harder chapter of working life. 

The book, 'The 100-Year Life', by Lynda Gratton and Andrew Scott tells us that the longer your life, the more your identity reflects what you craft, rather than a reactive response to where you began.

We can see a variety of careers waiting for us when we cross the threshhold of 60.  While savings  provide the baseline of security as you age, new skills and sustained relationships are set to take you to a fruitful life ahead in your journey.

Considering that a 100 year old human is still a human, research shows that the single strongest predictor of happiness in life ater retirement is the quality of your close relationships. 

..............................

Based on the editorial in Times of India of  21052026

WIFE NOT A DEEMED MAID

 

Bombay High Court, this month (May 8) dismissed a husband's plea for divorcing his wife on grounds of cruelty.

The Honouable Court made it explicit that a wife's refusal to perform daily chores did not qualify as mental cruelty.

The judgement reads:

"Mere failure of wife to do chores such as cooking, cleaning does not automatically amount to cruelty  as marriage is a partnership of equals, and not a service contract and the wives are not 'deemed maids.'

This is a welcome judgement in the Indian context. Here, marriages occur in general by parental choices. Male chauvinism relegates the woman to cooking and household chores in addition to managing her own job if she is employed. The society expects the man to dissociate himself from such mundane tasks at home. 

Marriages dissolve when the woman questions this equation. 

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

REJEESH AND ELVIN

                                                   REJEESH AND ELVIN 

                                                          NATURAL



SI SE PUEDE

 When I came across SI SE PUEDE in Times of India of 20 May 2026 in the article on Billie Jean King,  curiosity made look up  the Web. 

Here is what I learned.

SI SE PUEDE                 

"Sí se puede" is a famous Spanish phrase that translates to "Yes, it can be done" or "Yes, you can." 

It is an empowering, motivational motto frequently used to rally people together and overcome seemingly impossible challenges.

Context & HistoryCivil Rights:

The phrase was coined in the 1970s by labor leader Dolores Huerta during the United Farm Workers (UFW) strikes and hunger strikes led by Cesar Chavez.

Politics: 

It later gained global prominence as the Spanish equivalent of the "Yes, we can" political slogan.

Literal Meaning: 

Literally, "sí" (yes), "se" (it/one), and "puede" (can) represent a passive, collective capability—meaning "it is possible".

Usage

Examples
Encouragement:

 ¡Tú tienes que estudiar mucho, pero sí se puede! (You have to study a lot, but yes, you can do it!

Collective Motivation:
 

Vamos a terminar este proyecto a tiempo. ¡Sí se puede!

We are going to finish this project on time. Yes, we can do it!

For a deeper look into its historical roots, you can check out the Sí se puede - 
Wikipedia

BILLIE JEAN KING EARNS A COLLEGE DEGREE

 BILLIE JEAN KING EARNS A COLLEGE DEGREE

Billie Jean King raised her right hand in triumph.

Not for victory on the tennis court.

This time she was celebrating earning a college degree 65 years after she first took classes.

The 82 year old sports and equality icon received her bachelor's of art  in history from the California State University, Los Angeles on 18th May 2026.

She said,"It's never too late.  Whatever age you are, whatever your abilities are, go for it if you want it."

Her whole life she had committed herself to working toward equality and inclusion for all.

She held the view," We can never understand inclusion unless we've been excluded."

She punctuated her statement with, "Si se peude!" 

It meant, "Yes, you can!"

When queried, would she go for a master's degree now, the reply was highly motivating.

"I just think it's wonderful to always keep learning."

Times of India

20 May 2026

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

TO DO WELL FORGET WHERE YOU LOST OUT

 

John Mathew had been a man of principles. 

He was teaching in a private school, Golden Valley High School, at Nellimoodu.  When the strength of the students grew to three thousand, he had woked tirelessly to set up a branch of the school under the same mangement at Kanjiramkulam. He had hoped he would be posted as the Head Master at the new school as he had been the senior most teacher at the Golden Valley High School. 

John was frustrated when the mangement posted another teacher quite junior to him as the Head Master at the new School.

Later, John was offered the Post of the Principal of  a thriving school near Uduppi in Karnataka. The management knew the capabilities of John well. 

We were good friends. John had forwarded the photos and a description  of the school, he had joined to me.

I replied:

Good place you are helming

John responded:

Thank you so much for your love, guidance, correction, and appreciation.

I wrote back:

To do well, forget where you lost out. Those were yesterdays. 

It is today that matters.

When your todays are good, your tomorrows cannot fall behind.

Take care of your responsibilities.

Fail to win

John replied:

Thank you so much for your sincere words. I know these are  real words, because you know me. I know, I have to be very careful at  the administrative front. 

I commented:

You ought to.
You can

Monday, May 18, 2026

TWO YEAR OLD AND EIGHT MONTHS OLD AT THE KEYBOARD

 

                  TWO YEAR OLD AND EIGHT MONTHS OLD AT THE KEYBOARD




KUZHIPPALLAM BOTANICAL GARDEN HISTORY ON A STONE TABLET

 




I wrote to Mr. Georgekutty, when I located this pure gem. 

Georgekutty and his brothers are helming the Kuzhippallam Botanical Garden. 

This is history. This is of historical significance.

I found this relegated to the top level of the bonsai gallery.

My suggestion is it has to be cleaned and restored.

This is where Kuzhipallam Botanical Garden began.

I would also suggest, it has to be placed in the most prominent place in the garden in an elevated round with flowers. 

Forwarding what KUTSeminary, Kannammoola, Trivandrum has done with such a tablet.

It is placed at the entrance of KUT Seminary

Please think of something like this.

Please light it up with light falling on it at night as well.

If it is neglected, chances are someone ignorant of its significance  would break it up one day









SUCCESS AND LEADERSHIP KIARA ADVANI AND M.S.DHONI

 


Kiara Advani - Film Actor - on the pressure of being at the top and evolving with audience expectations

I think reaching your goal is not the hardest part. When you have reached, what do you do with it - is what is harder. 

How do you sustain it?

You are also then at a position where people are looking up to you and asking ... what next?

I see it with my fans. they are like.'Okay, we supported you till here, now what are you giving us? 

We want to see something new, we want to see something different.'


M.S. Dhoni, legendary cricketer, who captained CSK in the IPL and had guided CSK to five titles, had passed on the Captaincy to Ruturaj Gaikwad

Dhoni's suggestions to Ruturaj on leadership

Run CSK the way he wanted to run it. That was the way I had run it for a long time. Cricket is a game where the captain has to make the decisions. Yes, there are coaches and support staff, but it is not like football where the manager decides. In cricket, it's about the captain and he has to decide. In fact I have told him he is free not to take even a  single piece of advice from me.

Dhoni says, there can be certain things Ruturaj can pick up from him, but he essentially needs to be his own man. 

There can  be certain things he will pick up from the way I used to lead. But individuals are different. Whatever you feel is your style, you have the full liberty to decide.

I am very open. I'll come and talk to you. But you don't have to do even one thing that I speak to you about. Let's say I come up with ten pieces of advice, if you don't follow even one, that's fair enough.

When you are the leader, you have to take that responsibility

 As a leader, you have to assess the resources you have to decide how to deploy it.


Times of India of 18 May 2026



 


Friday, May 15, 2026

THE ADAGE

 

The adage goes, with great power comes great responsibility

Thursday, May 14, 2026

FUSHIMI INARI SHRINE WITH 10000 STEPS

 


Anoop writes from Japan today the 14thMay2026

He did call me at 5.29 pm. As I was driving to pick up Evana from the Falcon Badminton Academy, I asked Lila to take the call. Somehow the call was disconnected.

Later he posted a message:


"Pappa

Tried calling you 

Today We visited Todaji  Temple and Nara Deerpark where we touched and patted live deers

Subsequently we visited Fushimi Inari Shrine where we climbed 200 steps and the total steps were 10000

Then we visited Kinkako G Temple 

Also visited bamboo forest

Our guide Jimmy was one of the best guides we have ever had 

So helpful so friendly and he took us to a mini shopping street as we had enough time in.Kyoto 

Tomorrow early morning at 8.30 we are going to Hiroshima by Shinkansen Bullet train 

Going to sleep as we are tired from the long journey we had today"

When I saw the message I thought it would be better not to disturb them from sleep. But I posted a reply.

"Happy you had a wonderful day today.

10000 steps. Beats me. 

Clearing 200 is an achievement by itself.

When you called, we were going to pick up Evana. Gudugudu Road.

Lila took the call as I was driving. 

She said she couldn’t hear anything.

Sad I missed your call and voice.

Tomorrow, friday, again we'd go to pick up Evana. 5.30 pm is her winding up time. We leave after 5pm or at 5.15pm

Back by 6pm"

Monday, May 11, 2026

AT FALCON BADMINTON ACADEMY MOKKAT LANE ANAYARA TRIVANDRUM

                                             

                                               AT FALCON BADMINTON ACADEMY

                                           MOKKAT LANE ANAYARA TRIVANDRUM

While taking the Mokkat Lane, that had been purely a residential area, to access the Poonthi Road, we never thought it would ever be transformed.  Later, Flats began coming up there. Then we found a board FALCON BADMINTON ACADEMY on  a branch lane there. 

We were surprised it had been in existence for the past three years. Owned and managed by Ms.Thara, wife of a very senior Central Government official, Falcon Badminton Academy aims for the stars.

We explored it. We were wonderstruck. It was a World Class Facility at our door step at Anayara, that had been craving for development all these years..  They have very good coaches to impart the nuances of the game to the budding talents.

We believe it would soon churn out quite a number of Indian Internationals

We put Evana, our granddaughter, there. She's picking up the game fast. 

As we waited to pick her up after the day's coaching, we went for a few pictures.

They are here:


        


                                                                          

































Sunday, May 10, 2026

A CASUAL MOMENT AT KUZHIPALLAM

                                          A CASUAL MOMENT AT KUZHIPALLAM

We were strolling around the magnificence that the Kuzhipallam Botanical Garden unveiled.

We immersed ourselves among the plants, flowers and trees that transponded us to a surreal world.

We thought we could relax for a moment.

While we paused and posed in front of the Bonsai tree priced Rs.500000.00, Sreekanth captured us.

It was quite casual.

 


SHADES OF RED FORT IN THE BACKGROUND AT KUZHIPALLAM

 

                             SHADES OF RED FORT IN THE BACKGROUND

                                      KUZHIPALLAM BOTANICAL GARDEN
                                             
                                                         GROUP TOUR
                             






INNOCENT SMILES EVERLASTING SMILES

                                                        INNOCENT SMILES

                                                     EVERLASTING SMILES


                                                 


 

WE CAME WE ENJOYED

 We were at Anantya By The Lake.

We just couldn't believe such a scenery existed very close to Trivandrum.

The Lake, the Lawn and the tapering Western Ghats took us to the the high mountains and valleys we had been to earlier.

Wordsworth's lines resonated.