5TH of April 2008 was
the worst day in our lives. Pappa, our father, passed away on that day at 4.00 PM in the ICU of Pushpagiri Medical
College Hospital
in Kerala. Death was due to
complications arising from a surgery he had undergone at the hospital. The
surgery was necessitated because he was suffering from a broken
hip due to a fall in the evening of 31st
March 2008 at Kottayam.
Though Kottayam had enough
facilities, we took him over to the Pushpagiri Medical
College Hospital ,
a good distance off, as he had already been a patient of the Cardiology
Department there. We had enquired with a student, a relative, at that Medical
College . We were told that they had
a very good and efficient Orthopaedic Surgeon.
Pappa was admitted to the
Hospital on 1st April 2008 .
The Surgeon advised Surgery at once. He was operated on 3rd April 2008 . Soon after the
surgery he was transferred to the ICU. The Sisters in charge at the ICU advised us
to go to the room at the ward and wait there as the hospital did not like the
bystanders crowding in front of the ICU. They said they would contact us in the
event of any emergency. Though almost
all the hospitals permit one or two persons to visit the patient in the ICU for
five minutes each at a fixed time during the day, we found to our consternation
that this hospital had barred the entry of bystanders to the ICU. The relatives
and the dear ones of the patient had to be satisfied with a peep into the ICU
through a little window they would open for a few minutes at 4.00 PM
every day. As there were many patients in the ICU we had to jostle for space
for seeing Pappa before they closed the window.
Finding the urine output scanty, a
Lady Doctor had visited Pappa at night on 2nd April 2008 . She advised us to wait outside
the room as she was going to insert a Catheter. We felt she was quite inexperienced as she had
taken a very long time to do it. The procedure had resulted in considerable
loss of blood.
The lady doctor visited us at our
room at 8.00 AM on 4th April 2008 . She said Pappa was
alright and that they would be transferring him to the room. It was a big
relief. We started tidying up the room in anticipation of the arrival of Pappa.
There was a knock on the door at 11.00 AM . It was the Surgeon. He was
accompanied by the lady doctor and a host of medical staff. He started shouting
at us. He said we were totally
irresponsible. “You have dumped your father at the ICU. You are not taking care
of him. I have done my job well. But there are a number of machines and monitors
at the ICU. I am no expert to read or decipher them. You must go and fetch the
head of the department of Cardiology to examine your father. His condition is
very bad.” The great surgeon knew that Pappa had been a patient of the eminent
cardiologist for almost six years. He went off. We were in a trauma. We loved
Pappa very much. We could not even think of anything untoward happening to him.
As the Surgeon did not give us an
opportunity to discuss the reason for his unkindly outburst we went to his OP.
He reiterated what he had told us earlier. He said it was incumbent upon the
bystanders of the patient to arrange the visit of the specialists when the
patient was ailing.
We located the Cardiology
department. The doctors there told us that the head of the department was away
and would be back after three days only. We narrated the incident we went
through half an hour earlier. They said it was incumbent upon the Surgeon to
refer patients to them whenever a crisis developed. They required a note from
the Surgeon for their intervention. However they relented due to our persuasion
and had agreed to send a doctor from their department to the ICU on the second
floor.
I rang up my son and apprised him
of what the doctor had said. My son replied, “My friend at the ICU has advised
me that Appicha- grand father- has passed away.” Soon after I had put the phone
down, the doctor called me in again. He said, “I am sorry. Your father has
passed away.” We were in tears.
I asked him whether we could go
in and see our father. He was willing to permit us go in and have a look. We
found to our horror the entire staff at the ICU ganging up and shouting that
they would never permit us anywhere near our father who had passed away that
moment. It was the unkindest cut. We could see Pappa lying on his right on the
bed at the farthest corner of the ICU. Yet we could not be with him.
We took Pappa home that evening.
There were a large number of mourners. As the next day, 6th April 2008 dawned people from all
walks of life from far and near stepped in to pay their last respects. No
wonder, he was well liked by all the people he had come into contact with. The
state highway in front of our house was clogged with vehicles.
Pappa was laid to rest at the
Irampally Cemetry of the St.Thomas CSI
Church , Kunthirical, Thalavady
after ceremonies at home, the Church and the Cemetry.
A few weeks after his sad demise
a friend who knew Pappa rang up to offer condolences. He could not attend the
funeral. I told him I was sad I had taken him to the Pushpagiri Medical
College Hospital
for treatment. I was sad I could not offer him the best medical care. I felt he
might not have passed away like he did if it had been a different hospital. The
friend who belonged to the area concurred and added that the hospital had a
very dubious record. He did not elaborate further.
Pappa was a good father. He was
the embodiment of love. He was affectionate.
He was generous in giving. He
never wanted anything for himself. Even when he lay ill for the last time at
the hospital, he never cared for himself. He was concerned that we were going
without food. He was an ardent believer.
His faith knew no bounds. I heard him recite Psalms 23 and 121 as the day began
and before he went to sleep at night. He said he had been doing it for a very
long time. He affirmed he was not afraid to die.
We love you Pappa. We miss you
Pappa.
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