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Friday, March 20, 2026

YUZVENDRA CHAHAL CRICKETER GOES CANDID

 

BEING BETTER THAN YESTERDAY

Yazvendra Chahal, leg spinner, who has been in the Indian Cricket team goes candid on his ambitions and his resurgence. He admits he had been through a tough previous year marked by injuries and illness. He says, though the time away from cricket had tested him both physically and mentally, he is entering the new season with a renewed purpose.

He reveals, "Last year wasn't easy. But with the support of my family, friends and the Punjab team's management, I've come through it. I'm feeling much better now."

He has revamped himself.

To rebuild himself and to underline his commitment to peak performance, he has made several lifestyle changes.

He has given up alcohol, focussed on better sleep, improved his diet and committed himself to consistent Gym work.

He affirms, "I want to keep improving each year. I may not promise specific results, but I'll give everything I have, on and off the field."

There has been in evidence a mental reset.

At present he goes by, "This is about being better than yesterday."

What matters to him now is, helping the youngsters, supporting his teammates and giving off his best. He bats for collective strength over indvidual brilliance.

Success, according to him, comes through teamwork, where every one contributes to the utmost.

Yazvendra Chahal articulates and solidly emphasises  the most essential features for leading a  successful life

 It is valid for each individual, valid at our homes, valid at  the work front and valid  everywhere.

Yes, when we fail or fall, we have to revamp ourselves. We may have to go in for lifestyle changes. You have to constantly  improve. You will have to give your hundred percent to accomplish the tasks on hand. And please do not refrain from developing the  juniors or those who are not on par. 

Your mantra has to be, you are going to perform  better  today than yesterday. 

You will have to encourage your team members to believe in collective strength.  Here each one performs his part to the utmost. It enables the team to taste success with ease. 

 I believe it is time we paid heed to Yazvendra Chahal because what he has drawn from his own life has credibility.
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Sourced from an article on Yazvendra Chahal  in Times of India of 20th March 2026 in part.



Thursday, March 19, 2026

EVANA THE BEAUTIFUL GIRLS PARTLY FINISHED

                                      EVANA  THE BEAUTIFUL GIRLS  PARTLY FINISHED


                                                   


 

QUACKS

                                                                       

           We have, here, a news clipping from Times of India  of 19th March 2026.

                                                                      

                                                         



Botched tooth extraction kills woman in Bihar


Why are people gullible? Don't people ever learn?

In the good old days, it was ignorance, that had been our bane. In the current context too much awareness causes our downfall.

How can the quacks get away with what they illegally indulge in.  It could only mean they have worthy abettors. The sell off of the gullible is mutually beneficial to the abettors as well as the quacks. People suffer. People die. Unnecessarily. No one bothers.

To counter this callousness, reorientation of the people  from the grassroot level is essential. It would save them from exploitation by the quacks and their abettors. 


ARRESTING PHENOMENAL SLIDES

 

It was a moment to relish, when the Kerala cricket team entered the final of the Ranji Trophy Cricket tournament, last year. It was the first time for them. They had demolished several heavyweights on that journey. In the final, perhaps it might have been nerves, or perhaps the eventual winners, Vidarbha, were far superior. Kerala could finish only as the Runners up.

Historically in the earlier editions, Kerala never had been in contention. In fact they were punching bags for the rest of India.

What is surprising is that a team, that had proved is mettle so well last year, could not cross the league format in this year. They could beat Goa alone. 

Winning and losing are part of life, part of sport and part of the game everywhere. 

The Times of India of 19th March 2026, has presented a deep analysis on the failure of the Kerala Cricket team in the current year.                                                                      


The article sums up that the regression was on several counts.  The preparation was without clarity.  There was no  long term planning.  The domestic journey has never followed a linear trajectory. 

The departure of Jalaj Saxena had created a void that that had stripped the side of control, balance and experience during clutch moments. Although the work ethic of MD Nidheesh was impeccable, there had been no one to back him. 

Kerala did reach the summit last year. But they forgot that once you reach there, you have to stay there, sustain the success and build on the momentum. 

Kerala's task for the future is cut out. They have to build something sturdier to endure the grind of the Ranji season.

Transpose this into our own lives or our own offices or our own work situations.

How or why do we do well? Or how or why do we do badly, is a question we have to ask ourselves. If we keep our eyes open, we have the answer before us.

It is the team effort that brings in success. The departure of a stalwart, though painful, may affect the texture momentarily, but efficiency lies in restoration of the teams's stature at the earliest. A one man show is not enough either. Backing up is crucial. 

Recalibrate ourselves in our journey of life, is the essence.


Wednesday, March 18, 2026

THE LOVELY DWELLING PLACE

 

THE LOVELY DWELLING PLACE OF THE LORD

IT IS THE PLACE WHERE THE SPARROW,

THE TIMID,

INSIGNIFICANT

OR OVERLOOKED 

FIND WELCOME

WHERE EVERYBODY 

SEARCHING FOR TRUTH

CAN GAIN ACCESS


WISDOM

 

IF KNOWLEDGE 

IS POWER

KNOWING WHAT WE 

DON'T KNOW

IS WISDOM

THE PURPOSE OF LEARNING



THE PURPOSE OF LEARNING 

IS NOT TO AFFIRM 

OUR BELIEFS

IT IS TO

EVOLVE OUR BELIEFS

ROSES BLOOM NATURE KNOWS BEST

                                                                      ROSES BLOOM

                                                                NATURE KNOWS BEST

                                             LOOK AT THE COMBINATION OF COLOURS
     
                                                                          STRIKING



 

MESSAGE IN MY WHATSAPP AND THE REPLY


I received the following message in my WhatsApp recently

The official system for the public to submit complaints and suggestions is available 24/7. We guarantee a response within 48 hours. പൊതുജനങ്ങളുടെ പരാതികളും നിർദ്ദേശങ്ങളും അറിയിക്കാനുള്ള ഔദ്യോഗിക സംവിധാനം 24 മണിക്കൂറും സജ്ജമാണ്. 48 മണിക്കൂറിനുള്ളിൽ മറുപടി ഉറപ്പ്. Contact Details | ബന്ധപ്പെടേണ്ട വിവരങ്ങൾ: Toll-Free / WhatsApp Message: 18004256789 WhatsApp Call: whatsappcall.cmwithme.in (Free from all countries | എല്ലാ രാജ്യത്തുനിന്നും സൗജന്യം) Do you have any matters to bring to the Chief Minister's attention? മുഖ്യമന്ത്രിയുടെ ശ്രദ്ധയിൽപ്പെടുത്തുവാൻ നിങ്ങൾക്ക് എന്തെങ്കിലും വിഷയങ്ങൾ ഉണ്ടോ?

I replied

YES/ഉണ്ട്

And wrote:

The Pettah Oruvathilkotta road is nearing completion.  It may become fully functional in about 9 months, I perceive, the way things are moving.

Grateful to you for widening the road.

We know vehicles will be zooming past once it is completed

Here, I feel there had been a lacuna in whittling down the width of the road from the original 22metres to 14 metres.

What we hear is, we don't know if it's true, there had been opposition to the land acquisition for 22 metres width. Then someone high visited the place. He asked to mark a point in the middle of road. He asked to measure 7metres to both the sides of the road and had said that much widening alone is necessary. The road is now 14 metres.

But having witnessed development in the arterial roads of Trivandrum in the past 20 years,  my perception is that this 14metre road will have to be widened further to 22 metres or more as this road would turn out to be the topmost arterial road in Trivandrum in 20 years. 

I know very well your temperament for development. I know very well you wouldn't have agreed for the whittling down of the original plan and perhaps with your vision you would have made it even a little more wider than the original plan

Further it is high time the rail overbridge at Pettah is widened. As it is the bridge is the bottleneck to traffic.

I know no one else can bring it to fruition.

And we need a fly over at Pettah Junction to ease the traffic towards the city and the airport.

For me, I am 75 going on 76. I just hope I will be able to see what I have mentioned become real in my lifetime.

To my dearest companion

 

To my dearest companion

"Right from the day I met you till this day of my life, thank you so very much for being by my side, loving me for who I am and being absolutely true and honest to me no matter what I was to the outside world. Seeing my best side, seeing my worst side, you have seen it all and still stood strong by me. Thank you for understanding me and building our family. 

Thank you for wishing and dreaming with the same passion and intensity as I did to come good.

Thank you  dearest, my companion over all the tumultuous 48 years and more."

TRUST AND FAITH

 


Don't act on hope. 

Act  on trust and faith.

When you act on trust and faith, 

You don't lose out.

ACTOR TRISHA

 


A microphone doesn't make a comment intelligent. Or humorous.

It just makes stupidity louder.

Crude words without knowledge say more about the speaker 

Than the persons they're aimed at.


Actor Trisha

SUCCESSFUL MODERN FAMILY LIFE

 

The structure and architecture of successful modern family life is quiet simple.

It is never a towering performance by any single individual, but several small ones.

Success no longer rests on  one or two shoulders.

Someone simply arrives at the right moment.

Does the right thing. Another, the next day. Yet another the day after. 

The string lengthens without interruption.

Victory is assembled from fragments. 

Success belongs to nobody. And to everybody. 

Glory is not reserved for the chosen few. 

Greatness depends on doing  the right thing exactly at the right moment

SOLIPSIST

 

SOLIPSIST

A solipsist is someone who adheres to the philosophical theory of solipsism, which posits that only one's own mind and consciousness are certain to exist. It is the extreme view that the external world, including other people, cannot be known or proven, existing only as projections of the self. 

Key Aspects of a Solipsist Perspective:

Definition: Derived from Latin sōlus ("alone") and ipse ("self"), it is the belief that the self is all that can be known to exist.

Epistemological Basis: Solipsists argue that because they only have direct access to their own mental states, they cannot rationally verify the existence of anything else.

Psychological/Behavioral Usage: In a broader, less philosophical sense, a solipsist is someone excessively self-centered or focused solely on their own perspective, interests, and subjective experience.

Difference from Selfishness: Unlike selfishness, which implies a moral judgment of not sharing, solipsistic suggests a complete intellectual or perceptual inability to account for the reality of others. 

Contextual Usage:

Philosophy: It serves as a thought experiment in skepticism, challenging the existence of reality outside of consciousness.

Everyday Life: Describing someone as a solipsist implies they act as if they are the only person who matters or exists.

THREE QUOTES IMBIBED IN ME

 

Three quotes that touched me - imbibed in me - became the guiding principles in my life. 

I tried to put that into the lives of my wife and sons. No idea how far I have succeeded. 

About my wife. She had been brought up by her parents well.

Only thing was, she was never allowed to evolve herself. The parents always maintained, she was incapable without their interception and involvement.. When we became one, I could understand that because my upbringing was similar. Not blaming anyone as it was the practice across most of the families, those days

I made an effort to release her from that bondage. The transformation was electric. She discovered herself

Back to the quotes

One

Be the best wherever you are

Abraham Lincoln 

Once, my sweeper said he was sad he was only a sweeper. I told him it was because he had let go the opportunities that came his way. Showed him the quote. Told him to be the best sweeper first. And see the rest. He did as suggested. 

Later I heard, he became a clerk. - of course I had done my best in equipping him with the right tools

Two

The Ford Motors, when they started off at Maramalainagar, had inscribed six words at the most visible place in the facility.

CAN DO

WILL DO

MUST DO

I started thinking

CAN DO

Can do meant, you can, but  you will not do it

WILL DO

Will do meant, you will, but you may or may not do it and even if you do it, you will do it at your own sweet little time and that will be equivalent to nothing better than a negative outcome

MUST DO

Must do is the phase where you  finally decide you have to do it.

You have no way out.

You accomplish

In fact you force yourself to go after the seemingly impossible and perform to the fullest, at times stretching the elasticity to almost close to breaking point.

You win.

But the winners never gloat over the stupendous achievement.

They go after the next challenge waiting in the line.

That's MUST DO for you

Three

 I found it in a book Ammachi was reading. She was a voracious reader. Lila's mother. A phenomenal dental surgeon.

The book was from the Mills and Boon stable.

Those days people used to comment derisively of the Mills and Boon books and its lakhs and lakhs of women admirers.

But a casual glance was the revelation of my life

"TWO LOOK THROUGH THE SAME BARS,

ONE SEES MUD,

ONE STARS."

It startled me. 

I introspected.

I could see that I was the one who saw MUD always.

I understood people around me had similar views. Look for the MUD was the common criteria those days.

When you are born these are not in you. Later as you grow up, the family, the people around you and the environment itself make you subscribe and conform to the negativity. It's impossible to counter that. If ever you attempt it you are ridiculed and labelled REBEL. 

Rebels are not allowed to reach anywhere in the society.

Safest is to remain subservient

But I started to attempt to correct myself. Everything has to begin at home. I can't assert I have succeeded wholly, but I can affirm there has been a partial amendment to my life, in my life. 

I often wonder where I would have been if what has happened to me had occurred at the very beginning.

But I have discovered that to become what I am I had to be put through the paces I have been through.

You can't run away from whatever that had been preordained.

But I now try to go by the six simple words.

SEE THE STARS, NOT THE MUD

I can't say I am an outright success. But it doesn't prevent me from trying to be that






Gitanjali 35 Rabindranath Tagore

 


POEM

Gitanjali 35

Rabindranath Tagore

Published in 1901


Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;

Where knowledge is free;

Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;

Where words come out from the depth of truth;

Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;

Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;

Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action

Into that heaven of freedom, my Father,

 let my country awake.

BETTY REMINISCES ABOUT D ZACHARIA FROM PHILADELPHIA

                                         


Tribute to D Zacharia Our Beloved Valyapapa

Today our hearts are filled with sorrow as we say goodbye to our beloved Valyapapa, my father’s eldest brother. His passing has left a deep emptiness in our family—one that words can hardly express. Yet even in this grief, we thank God for the precious life he lived and the countless ways he loved and cared for all of us.

Valyapapa was not just the eldest among nine siblings; he was the heart that held the entire family together. He carried the responsibility of the family with quiet strength and deep love. He made sure that none of us went astray  and that we always remembered the values we were raised with. For all of us, he was a guide, a constant source of wisdom.

Above all, he was a true Christian. His faith was sincere and unwavering. His prayers were powerful, and many of us have personally felt the strength of those prayers in our lives. When Valyapapa prayed, you could sense the depth of his faith and his love for the Lord.

There is an incident from his youth, which I remember often quoted in my father's sermons, that beautifully reflects the depth of his faith. Once, a Pentecostal pastor told him that he had seen a vision in which a coffin was being brought out of his house, suggesting that he might die young. Valyapapa’s response revealed the strength of his faith. He calmly said that he had already decided to live and die for Christ. If Christ wished to take him then, he would only be glad, because it meant he would be with the Lord sooner. That unwavering faith shaped the way he lived the rest of his life.

Family meant everything to Valyapapa. He strongly believed that families should stay united. He insisted on regular family gatherings, and those gatherings were never just social occasions. They always included a prayer fellowship and what we lovingly called the “Valyapapa session.” During those moments, he would remind us of how our family survived difficult times during Appachan and Ammachi’s days, and how we must honor their legacy by living with strong Christian values. He cared deeply about how we lived—how we dressed, how we behaved, and most importantly, how close we were walking with Christ.

I will never forget one particular moment that shows the kind of person he was. On the day we were leaving for the United States, I called him early that morning just to inform him that we were traveling and asked him to pray for us. But Valyapapa did something extraordinary. Instead of simply praying from home, he traveled all the way to Kottayam just to see us, pray for us in person, and send us off with his blessing. That was the kind of love he had—he never did things halfway. His care was always personal, sacrificial, and full of prayer.

During my pregnancy, when I was bedridden in the hospital, his love and concern became even more evident. Almost every day he would come to visit, bringing food from home. When he learned that I liked biriyani, he made sure that it was prepared and brought to me with such care. Those moments of kindness meant more than words can say. In a time when I was weak and struggling, his presence brought comfort and strength.

Valyapapa was also a homeopathic doctor, and for many of us he was the first person we turned to whenever we needed treatment. His medicines were never just medicines—they were given with prayer, concern, and love. Even after we moved away, we continued seeking his guidance and medicines for our family, even for my son Jithin. We always believed that along with the medicine came his prayers and blessings.

His compassion extended far beyond our family. He ran the Bethesda Hospital in Thumpamon, dedicating his life to caring for the sick and the elderly. Many elderly people who had no one to care for them found love and dignity under his care. He would often take their soiled clothes home and wash them himself, serving them with a humility and compassion that many of their own children did not show. For him, serving the helpless was part of serving Christ.

His concern for the next generation was equally remarkable. At the VBS programs of Nallanikunnu CSI Church, he made sure that children received healthy refreshments. He believed that caring for children included caring for their health. So he and Mummy would prepare healthy snacks like kozhukkatta, boiled eggs, milk, and other nourishing food for the VBS children.

Valyapapa’s life was also filled with many acts of social service. He helped build houses for the homeless, supported ministry for the blind, and sponsored orphans in Parkal. These are only a few examples of the many quiet acts of kindness he carried out without seeking recognition.

Valyapapa was a man of integrity, strong values, and deep compassion. He lived his life serving others, guiding his family, and trusting God in all things. His love was practical, sincere, and constant. He didn’t just speak about faith and family—he lived it every single day.

Today we feel the pain of losing someone so precious to us. The space he filled in our lives and in our family is irreplaceable. Yet we take comfort in knowing that he has finished his race faithfully and has gone to the eternal rest prepared for him by the Lord he loved and served.

Valyapapa’s prayers, his love, his guidance, and his example will continue to live in our hearts. His life has left a legacy that will guide our family for generations.

We will miss him deeply. But we will always remember him with love, gratitude, and honor.

Valyapapa, your love shaped our family, your prayers strengthened our lives, and your memory will remain in our hearts forever.

Betty
(Daughter of Rev. Jacob Daniel, younger brother of D Zacharia))

Betty is Dr. Betty Elsa Jacob, w/o Rev. Sandeep Jacob and Asst Professor, Dept. of English, CMS College, Kottayam, currently on leave)

PINK ROSE THRUSTS ITSELF AMIDST THE SPLENDOUR OF COLOURS

 

                  PINK ROSE THRUSTS ITSELF AMIDST THE SPLENDOUR OF COLOURS

                                                                  


WHITE ROSE

 

                                                                WHITE ROSE

          



 

                                                                                   


 

                                                                                 


                    

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

PDA PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION

 

PDA  PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION

Mohua Das  writes in Sunday Times of India of 15th March 2026

Excerpts 


New love produces a sort of giddiness that convinces its participants, the world has briefly vanished.

How much PDA is too much PDA is the question.

Too much intimacy in public is frowned upon by the hierarchy of outrage in india.
Indians do not mind westerners hugging their partners publicly, but moral thunder strikes at its loudest when Indians indulge in it.

It is said India is a country where public urination causes less alarm than kissing in public.

The digital juries in this country have codified PDA as,
"Anything beyond a hug, peck on the cheek or holding hands." 

Another adopts the grandmother's rule of thumb,
"If you wouldn't want your grandmother to see it, keep it to yourself."

The measuring rod is surprisingly technical.

Handholding is widely acceptable.
Arms around the waist, borderline.
A quick hello - goodbye kiss passes muster
Smooch is red alert

If one is still intent on rules, we can rely on the grandmother's test,
"If she doesn't faint, it's probably fine."

Then there is the four second rule,
"A kiss longer than four seconds begins to make the observers self conscious."

There is a security advice too,
"If the kiss lasts long enough for someone to steal your wallet, it is probably too long."

In India, make believe is fine. Anything more tends to cause palpitations.
Here the rule of romance in public are elastic.
Here, the couples in parks and beaches are asked to keep two feet distance.

All the same, there has been no slow down in the explosion of population, 
even if Indians are barred from PDA or even kissing in public.

Many Indians had grown up in homes never seeing their parents holding hands or 
displaying affection in public.
This is the country where "westernised boldness" triggers a frenzy.
Moreover a kiss on the cheek is considered obscene here.
If a couple lounges somewhere in the open, it is the breach of morality.

The arch conservatives among Indians that comprise the majority, fret about the example PDA might set for their school going children. It is the natural parental concern.
But through PDA, if people behave less like the upright and more like the young who are deliriously happy, there is absolutely nothing wrong with PDA.

TO SUCCEED

 

TO SUCCEED

You have to be constantly experimenting
You should never be predictable
You must do out of the box things
You should do things differently
All the time

There is no medicine like victory
It's a tonic that energises you
The memories stay with you forever
It helps subsequent generations

The younger generation observes you
And they get inspired
By what you accomplish

Celebration of success 
In its immediate afterglow
Is not the collapse of 
A civilisation

At its best or worst
The successful would
Briefly 
Look human


CHOOSE SERVANTHOOD OVER POWER

 

Humanity has an inbuilt foolishness and disarray. The desire to make good a visual statement of one's achievements, wealth or status seems to have been  hardwired into human beings. The palatial buildings that come up everywhere try to outcompete the other in size, ostentatiousness and vanity. It extends to business establishments, educational institutions, hospitals and even places of worship.

They are erected as a demonstration of someone's wealth and ambition. No doubt they are all aesthetically marvellous.

It suggests that the story of babel is as fresh today as it ever had been.

The sole antidote is Jesus Christ.

He is the one, who chose servanthood over power.

Jesus touches the sick, washes dirty feet and steps over the barriers of race and language. He opens wide his arms to embrace all people.

Unfortunately, many who follow Jesus today are after assets and power alone. They don't know they are derailing the true mission of Jesus Christ.

IMMORTAL WORDS OF A FAMOUS FILM ACTOR

 

This is something I came across in the net. It was fairly long. All I have done is, taking photos of the relevant parts and placing them here.

It is in Malayalam, my mother tongue. It is spoken in the State of Kerala in India.

Underneath the two photos, we have its translation in English

                                                                              

                                                                           


You never expect anything would go wrong with you. That's what you normally think. You believe you are the centre of the world. I understood I was a disposable for the  first time when I fell ill. You know very well what to do or think when a member of your family or a friend falls ill. But you don't know what to do when it happens to you. A host of people would be sympathetic. They really wish to know what has happened to you.  They are shocked.

As for me, life had been proceeding fast. However,the pause key suddenly whirred. The blood pressure had gone up. There was calcification around the heart. The kidneys were failing. All these were pointers to 70% chances of a paralysis or a hemorrhage. There was a 30% chance for fatality as well. It was my films that had taught me to override all impediments and rise up as a true hero everywhere. But it shocked me beyond salvation when my ailment was diagnosed.

EVANA'S BUTTERFLY FINDS A PLACE IN HER SCHOOL'S MAGAZINE

 


                        EVANA'S BUTTERFLY FINDS A PLACE IN HER SCHOOL'S MAGAZINE

                                                                          








                                                                              

                                                                       


  




AARYAN'S OBSERVATIONS AND WHAT FOLLOWED

 



Aaron, 14 years, Anoop's son , had lent  the book, 'A Walk Through The Rain,' to his classmate Aaryan. Anoop is our elder son. Both Aaron and Aaryan are in the ICSE, 8th Standard, at the St.Thomas Residential School. Mukkola, Trivandrum. 

Here is his review or his observations he had forwarded through Aaron


                              The author wrote:

Abraham Jacob
9447253532                                                                                       14th March 2026

Dear Aaryan,

I am indeed happy to receive your letter conveyed through Aaron, my grandson.

Monei or Son, I don't know how to express my gratitude for the beautiful letter that has articulated your observations on my book. You did mention, your handwriting is not that good. To me it looked fine, in fact better than mine. Legible too.

As regards the vocabulary, it didn't happen overnight. It was built over the years. I know yours will be much better as you grow up.

Now for the ideas in the book. They just occurred. It's a sum total of my experiences, good and bad, what I have read, what I have seen and what i have come across. The book is a collection of my blog posts, when it was 160 strong, 3 years ago. The posts now number 845.

I keep on penning.

One of the latest is, 'How I Learn'.

The post is just 4 words.

"I LISTEN, I LEARN"

Your comment on 'ideas' makes me zoom.

It's just what we all have in our minds; but I take the liberty to put them on paper.

Let me part with a suggestion. Do well in life. There is nothing insurmountable. It's our own mind that pulls us back

May god bless yoi

Regards,
sd/-
Abraham Jacob
                                                                    
Saji is a member of Christ Church. He and his wife sing in the Choir.

He was formerly DGM, SBI.

He stays across the main road in front of  the KUT Seminary campus, Kannammoola, Trivandrum

On Sunday, 15th March 2026, after the worship at the Church, I forwarded the wonderful feedback from Aaryan, to Saji

It elicited a reply from him and another response from me. They are here.

"Read both the letters."

"As we discussed at the church portico, it's quite impressive that a present day teenager could pen such a letter. I never thought so. I had lost hope in the current generation but still some flicker of hope is there. Thanks for forwarding."

My response.

 "God created heaven and earth.

He knew how to run it from that time onwards.

He has done it over centuries.

He'll never let go.

That's why we have boys like Aaryan

To take us and the world forward on His terms.

I praise God for giving Aaryan to us, to the world.

We have hope

We have future

There.

Like you had aptly put it

That's the glimmer of hope"

Rev. Santy S Paul: 

Thanks for forwarding these updates dear sir.

I was indeed excited to see the letter  to you from such a young reader and the sincere reply by the author.

The way in which Aaryan connected the content of the book to nation building ("to implement your ideas to reformation") is especially commendable. 

I am sure these are most gratifying moments of an author that prompts to express him/ herself more and more.

Good wishes sir

Shara quipped

What are the odds of two friends having both their names start with Aar.

And I replied

One in several billions!!!


Monday, March 16, 2026

When speech development takes the slow lane

 


We were concerned when Elvin at 18 months lagged in speech development. A friend advised us to be patient. According to her some children were like that.

I wrote to her recently

Elvin turned two on 13March2026.

We held a lunch get-together on 14thMarch to celebrate. It was confined to close relatives. His maternal grandparents joined us travelling all the way from Kadammanitta.

It was a happy experience.

In the evening, at the close of family prayer time, he joined everyone blurting out 'Amen,' that marks the conclusion.

The past couple of days he had been talking in his own language that he alone could decipher. But in between Amma and Appa comes out occasionally.

When I related speech development was slow to my younger brother, his response was, Elvin's father also had been like that.

But those were the days we both were on a mad race and where personal matters had always faded away into insignificance.

And no one had bothered about such trivial issues either those days.

It was your genuine concern for the child that made me  put the foot down and and decree a cooling period till he reached three as advised by Dr. Abraham, the richly experienced Paediatrician.

The child shows a high level of intelligence. He indulges in activities we suggest. He displays his affection vehemently. He runs around. The vision and hearing are sharp. Looks up at the faint sound when someone opens the gate. Displays his emotions. He conveys in his own way what he wants and he manages to land that.

I just wonder what would have happened if your advice hadn't come at the right moment.

Managing children is ok. But managing the mother who is much concerned is indeed  a tough proposition as her concern is genuine.

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Sunday, March 15, 2026

D ZACHARIA OR DR. DANIEL ZACHARIA OR THAMPIKUTTYCHAYAN

 


D ZACHARIA

Abey, my cousin, rings me up from Tiruvalla, at 8.57 am on 12th March2026. I couldn't attend the call. Later at 10.53am I responded, when I located the missed call. Abey tells me our Zacharia Sir had passed away this morning. He queried, didn't Laji achachan convey the news to you. I replied,"He must have been busy." I wondered why Laji didn't do that.

It was a shock to me. We had known him well. We knew who he really had been.

We had met at the time of Sandeep's marriage. Sandeep is Laji's son.

Our next meeting was at the residence of the Principal's Quarters, KUT Seminary, Kannammoola, where I was the Honorary Treasurer. I still am. His wife, Lissy ammamma, was with him. 

Rev.Dr. M.P Joseph, the Principal had invited me to partake in a family function and lunch thereafter. Thampikuttychayan or D. Zacharia or Dr.Daniel Zacharia (Homoeo Doctor) was the eldest brother in law of M.P.Joseph Achen. 

Lunch over, we conversed for sometime. I invited him to visit my place. I said it was only 2 km. He agreed to the suggestion at once. But he revealed to me he had to visit Palapur where he was helping Mr.Rajendran,who was blind to build a house. He said though Rajendran was a practicing advocate, his means were paltry. He had assessed the economic status through independent enquiries.

Thampikuttychayan told me that helping the homeless to build houses had been an activity he had begun from age 15. He had already done this for a large number of people across Kerala. To my question how managed the funding, he replied apart from delving into his own resources,  many of his contacts had been generously and voluntarily topping up his requirements on this front.

He said though he was staying at Elavumthitta, the needy often flocked to his residence. If he was convinced over the genuineness, he would unplug  and stretch himself to assist them.

He just couldn't fathom how Rajendran from South Kerala had landed up at his place one day. However, once he had listened, he was convinced Rajendran deserved assistance to build his house. Thampikuttychayan had travelled in his own car to Palapur and had a look the property. Since the brother of Rajendran, who had been a mason as well as a contractor, was staying in the adjacent property, Thampikuttychayan had entrusted the construction of the house to him.

But this brother had other ideas. He wanted to siphon off the money, Thampikuttychayan was providing for the construction of the house. He had a feeling the benefactor was flush with money from abroad. He wanted to have a bite for himself.

Well, Thampikuttychayan and his wife came to our place in their own car. I drove ahead. We had some pleasant moments at home. It enabled me to have a peep into the life of this wonderful person. I felt he was the elephant and I, just an ant. No way, comparable

He invited me to travel to Palapur in his car, a Hyundai Santro, and talked Lila into joining us.It was very difficult to say 'no' to him.

At Palapur, Rajendran and his wife were waiting for Thampikuttychayan. 

The status of the construction shocked us. Though money had been poured in, that was enough to have completed the construction, it was just half way. We climbed on to the terrace. We were warned the floor was slippery and we could easily fall if we were not careful. There was a side show in the form of the brother of Rajendran. He was displaying a tantrum and throwing abuses at the driver of Thampikuttychayan for parking the car in front of his boundary wall on the public road.  Thampikuttychyan took it lightly.

Thampikuttychayan said he wanted to somehow complete the construction. He was disinterested to let Rajendran's brother carry on. While we stood on the terrace, a name popped up in my mind. Finney C Varghese. Finney is a contractor. He is my friend. He is a person who delivers. I spoke to Thampikuttychayan about Finney. He accepted Finney at once and requested me to contact Finney and revert.

At night, I contacted Finney. Though reluctant initially, Finney consented when I oriented him on the greatness of Thampikuttychayan. 

Within a few days, Thampikuttychayan came again to take Finney to the site. Finney said he would complete the construction in three months. Thampikuttychayan assured him not to ponder on fund flow.

Finney kept his word. Thampikuttichayan kept his word.

Finney later told me, Zacharia Sir used to catch a bus on the MC Road and reach his house at 7 am whenever Finney wanted replenishment of funds for the construction. He said he was amazed as Zacharia Sir was around 78 years in age  at that time and to reach Finney's place at 7 am he must have been catching the bus at least at 4am. 

I asked Thampikuttychayan how he managed to reach the MC Road at that early hour. The reply was quite surprising. He said he had a ramshackle scooter that he rode to the MC Road from his house 10 km away. When I asked where he would leave the scooter, the reply was, 'on the pavement.' When I enquired,"Won't anyone take it away," he had laughed it off. He said who wanted such a lousy scooter.

Finally, the date  for the house warming was set. Thampikuttychayan was invited. Finney was invited. I too was.

The house warming was conducted by the Bishop A Dhramaraj Rasalam, Bishop of the CSI South Kerala Diocese. The previous day we were together at the meeting of the Governing Council of the KUT Seminary, Kannammoola. He was surprised to see me at Palapur. 

After the ceremony was over, the Bishop made a short speech. He said he was happy Rajendran could complete the construction of his house overcoming two major handicaps, that he was blind and that he was badly off financially. The Bishop said, as far as he knew two persons were behind the completion of the house, one, a well known doctor and two, the Treasurer of the KUT Seminary.

Blindness never had dissuaded Rajendran from going ahead in life. If necessary, he had no inhibition in meeting the Chief Minister of the State. As we stood there, waiting for the arrival of the Bishop, two blind friends of Rajendran had come in an autoriksha. Knowing they were blind, the driver demanded a hefty sum from them. Rajendran was standing there. He shouted at the driver, "Are you trying to cheat the blind?' 

The driver took whatever they gave and drove off.

While we were travelling to Palapur, Thampikuttychayan had revealed another phase of his life. He said after completion of his Homoeo Course he had set up a hospital at Nallanikunnu. There were in patients as well. Many of them were destitutes. He said whenever he found  abandoned persons he used to take them to the hospital. He had cared for them,  cleaning them up himself at times.

As things were working well, he had a close call. When he consulted CMC Vellore, they had told him his heart needed surgery that would cost Rs.10.00 lakhs. He said he had approached his own church. He had told them he would let the church take over the hospital and the prime property if they would give him the money he needed for the surgery. The Church was agreeable to take over the Hospital and the property, for free. 

Exsperated, he had contacted Bishop Zacharias Mar Theophilus of the MarThoma Church and related his predicament. The Bishop in turn contacted a few pastors of the MarThoma Churches around the area. The outcome was electric. The amount Thampikuttychayan had sought was ready. It was transferred to his account. The property was transferred to the MarThoma Church through the execution of documents.

Recently he had told me, the Marthoma Church had informed him that the hospital he had handed over, was the Jewel among all  their facilities in the area. Quite a large number of people were benefitted by the services rendered there. 

He had divulged an unsavoury incident related to his effort to mobilise funds for his treatment.

An individual on learning that the property was up for sale had contacted him and had offered to buy it at any price he desired. Thampikuttychayan declined the offer, telling him that he had intended to sell it to church related institutions only. The reply was a barrage of abusive language. But he had held on.

The Bishop of the CSI Madhya Kerala Diocese had entrusted him to develop the  dilapidated Bungalow at the Monroe Island to a facility for the blind. The assignment was challenging. He was growing in age. He had physical limitations. The place was far away from his residence. But he was game.

He would leave his house very early in the morning on his favourite scooter and reach the MC Road. He would leave the scooter on the pavement. Then he would catch a KSRTC bus upto a point. He would catch a private bus to another point. Another private bus would take him to his destination. He would look after his job there, the whole day. In the evening it was the journey in the reverse direction. He would carry on with all the modes of traffic he took  in the morning to return to his place.  The cycle would be repeated the next day and the next day till he had completed the work at Monroe Island.

There is another anecdote he had shared with me. 

He had donated a good sum to his Church for utilising in any new project the church proposed. The church was truthful. They didn't propose any new project. But they kept the amount in balance sheets after balance sheets as donation from D.Zacharia for a new prject.

While he was struggling to source funds for the Monroe Island Project, he submitted a request to the Church. It was for releasing the accummulated interest on the amount he had donated towards the work at Monroe Island. The request was considered by the Church Committee. One senior member of the Committee had  blurted out his views that was accepted by the committee. "Avante paisa muzhuvan thirichu koduthekanam. Nammude balance sheet il ninnum oru entry illathakumallo." (Let us pay back his donation in full. Our balnce sheet will not be burdened by this entry anymore)

I didn't tell him, the callousness I felt was the cause of the decay in the church. 

He said he had no complaints

While he had toiled hard for the church and christain activities - he was very active in the Bible Society -  he never forsake his profession. He provided succour to his countless patiens.

He was a voracious reader. He wrote articles in the publications of the church. The latest I read him was on 3rd March 2026 in the Gurupadantikam, daily devotion.  He had dwelt on 'ennile 'njan' bhavam.'. He closed it singing,

"njan varunnu krusingal
sadhu ksheenan kurudan" 

It was prophetic.
He left us on 12th march 2026

The funeral is schduled on 16th March 2026 at the CSI St. Paul's Church, Nallanikunnu at      2pm

I had begun with Abey.  Abey is based at Tiruvalla and Thalavady. He is the son of Achenkunjachayan, my uncle, who always lived for others. Abey follows his father in word and deed. He told me he wanted to help Ponnamma, who was homeless, build a house. I suggested that he should contact D.Zacharia who had been very active on such missions. Abey later told me, the moment he contacted D Zacharia, he had remitted Rs.10000.00 for the purpose. In fact that had been the first contribution. It energised Abey. When Ponnamma's house was completed, D Zacharia and his wife were present at the house warming ceremony.

Finding the obit news in the  Malayala Manorama of 13th Macrh2026, I rang up Laji. Laji was apolegetic. He said he had somehow missed to convey the sad news. When I enquired on the cause of death, Laji related an extraordinary tale.

Thampikuttychayan was unwell for a few days. When he met the doctors, after evaluation, they had told him, there was a shrinkage in the heart's valve (aortic valve stenosis). According to them, a pace maker was the sole answer. Thampikuttychayan was firm. He said he didn't wish to go under the knife anymore. He asked how much the pace maker would cost. Rs.4.00lakhs was the reply. What he did after that was some thing no sane man would ever do. He gifted the amount, Rs.4.00 lakhs, to a homeless person to build his house. 

He breathed his last quietly at the Fellowship Hospital at Kumbanad on 12th March2026, early morning.

He lived all his life to build homes for the homeless. He died building home for the homeless.

Jesus Christ lived in him. He lived for Jesus Christ.

He was unknown. He was well known

It is people like Thampikyttychayan, who show us how we should live.

Caring, sharing, caring, sharing

Dearest Thampikuttychayan, not only us, but a host of people throughout the length and breadth of Kerala would miss you

Like I wrote to his younger brother

"He was indeed a wonderful personality

He followed Jesus Christ in word and deed

Emulate him we all  must

But a very difficult  call"

I would add just two words

'WE CAN"

That's exactly what he wants from us.

 




Saturday, March 14, 2026

SANJU SAMSON MADE BY ARABIAN SEA

 

For Sanju Samson, the rhythms of cricket and the echo of sea are always intertwined. 

His outlook on success and failure were shaped by the unpredictable mood of the Arabian Sea and the daily departure of boats from the fishing hamlet of Vizhinjam. He grew up watching fishermen push their boats into the sea before dawn. Some days the nets returned heavy with fish. Some days they came back almost empty. But the next morning the boats would head out again. 

That cycle of hope, disappointment and persistence left a deep impression on young Sanju. His maternal grandfather, Anthonis, used to tell him, "You can't control the sea. You can only control how prepared you are when you go out. Some days you come back with nothing. But you still wake up the next morning and go again."

Life at sea had hardened Anthonis. The qualities he had passed on to his grandson were,  resilience, humility and the ability to remain grounded regardless of success. Anthonis taught Sanju to face stoically, both successes and failures. For Anthonis, failure was not an end. He advised Sanju not to be disheartened when opportunities slipped away as fast as they appeared.

Sanju was captivated by his granfather's stories about life at the ocean. There were sudden storms, narrow escapes and long nights at the Sea. They stirred his imagination.

Sanju Samson's  personality is restrained. He is calm and composed. He rarely shows anger or emotion during matches. His journey is defined by patience and gradual growth. His temperament had been shaped long ago on the shores of Vizhinjam. There, the fishermen know that success in life  is never guaranteed.  And that the Sea must be faced again the next morning,

Sanju was born on November 11, 1994. Hardwork and humility have always been his signature. Even as a teenager he had been really focussed. He went on long practice sessions without complaint. He was imbibed with the hunger to keep on practising. He was willing to listen and improve from his younger days

Sanju remains the same humble person even now. He is willing to listen and improve. Fame has not altered him. 

To Sanju, Cricket resembles the Sea  he grew up with  - unpredictable, unforgiving and impossible to control. Like the fishermen he had once observed  from the shore, Sanju has learned that the only thing one can do is prepare, go out and try again and try again.    ...........................

Excerpts from Times of India of 12 March 2026,  narrative by Krishnachand. K.                          ...........................

I have little more to add.

I had been employed at Valiathura during 1979 - 1980. The office was quite close to the Valiathura Pier. Whenever there were breaks, I used to frequent the Pier. The Pier had been built to commence Port operations at Valiathura. However labour issues had thrown the operations out of gear. The Pier stood there, extended into the Arabian Sea. Quite a lot of tourists would saunter along the bridge upto the last point. You could watch the waves lash the pillars on its final heaves to the shore. It was beautiful. It was terrifying. If you are lucky, you would be slightly drenched by the showers from an unruly wave. I watched the fishermen crouch and  extend their lines from  the fishing rods into the sea and catch the fish. There were large number of  buyers for the fresh fish. 

But what astounded me was the Catamarans. They were brought on vehicles upto the final point beyond which it was only the sea. The Catamarans were fully loaded. It had the fishing net, fuel and.provisions. I could see, one fisherman jumping into the sea with a rope tied around his waist and with the other end attached to the Catamaran. Then the Catamaran would be dropped into the sea by a few experienced fishermen who were adept in the operation. Once the Catamaran was in the sea, the second fisherman would jump with a rope attached to his waist as well as the Catamaran. The two fishermen in the sea would steady the Catamaran, climb on it and begin paddling it away with their oars.. They would release the sail if the wind was right. 

They chose the pier because they could avoid the strong waves that lashed the shores, to step out into the sea.  The Catamarans would proceed to where they could have a good catch. At night while standing on the shore, the lights you view at distance in the sea, would be from the large number of boats out on fishing.

The fishermen would cast their nets in the sea and would return with their catch the next day. When the boats return, it would take more than an hour to draw the fishing net in, laden with the catch.

The manner in which the fishermen fought the elements to make a living had left a lasting impression on me.

I was filled with empathy when I had a customer with two holes in place of his nose. The nose was simply not there. When I enquired what had happened, he revealed that a Catamaran had hit him on his face while at Sea.

It made me understand why the fishermen community were firm believers in God. They are fighters all the way. They know very well,the unpredictability life expounds. But they would fight all the time till they succeed. They never give up. 

Sanju Samson is no different.