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Saturday, November 15, 2025

I AM SCHEDULED FOR SLAUGHTER






I AM   SCHEDULED FOR SLAUGHTER

People write their autobiographies to enable posterity remember them. Inert objects do not have that privilege. How can they do that when they are not human beings? But, I, Lakeview , am fully alive. I am not inert. I was full of life. I am full of life.

However, I am scheduled to be slaughtered anytime now. My current owner and his people vehemently think that I have outlived my utility. They strongly think that at the age of 50, I cannot be salvaged. They think I am past my prime. They think that a house of 1200 sq. feet is very large and that it is wasting a big area that could be utilized for agriculture. Yes, I am what I am. I am a house. A house, where people happily lived together.  I was a house filled with laughter.

The foundation stone for me was laid in November 1974. Present were George Mathew, his wife Sally George and his elder son Roshan. George was a Service Engineer with the Malayalam Plantations, Suryanelli. Sally was a home maker. Aged 24, Roshan was jobless. He was a post graduate. He had worked as a Lecturer in a Junior College in Bhatkal, Karnataka soon after his post graduation for one year, 1972 – 73. George was the owner of a property measuring 45 cents at Alamthuruthi, adjacent to the lone culvert on the Alamthuruthi - Chathanparambu road. He had purchased it during the period 1961 to 1974 in four tranches. It is located just 1km from the Alamthuruthi Junction on the Tiruvalla - Kayamkulam Road.    A square plot that has a magnificent view of the vast paddy fields, it was aptly named 'Lakeview.' The siblings of Roshan could not be there for the laying of  foundation as they were at their Colleges. Riya, a post graduate student, was at the St.Teresa’s College, Ernakulam and Rajesh, a Pre degree student, was at the Mar Ivanios College, Trivandrum. They were staying in their hostels.

A few months before settling on the current lay out, George  had decided to build me facing the west. Necessary preparations had been done for that. But his Ammachan (Uncle) had dissuaded him. The advice was, building a house facing the west would invite disaster (dosham in malayalam). Though George was a firm believer in the power of Jesus, he was a nest of superstitions too.

It was dichotomy.

When George had purchased the property, his father was alive. He advised George to build a nine room row of shops there. The idea was to rent it out and earn an extra income. There was no SWOT those days. George went ahead with the construction, borrowing the maximum from his Provident Fund. Since PF loans were approved only for building dwelling places, George had submitted a plan to build two floors projecting the first floor as his place to stay. He then reneged and did not construct the top floor. The PF authorities reciprocated. They initiated recovery process for nonperformance. Since he had no means of survival if the recovery was effected Geoge gathered courage, and met the PF Commissioner. He took pity on George and cancelled the recovery process.

The beauty was once the building was completed there were no takers. At last all the nine shops were taken on lease at Rs.15.00 each per month. However, there had been default in the payment of rent. One barber did not pay rent for 24 months and finally he returned the key with a demand that he must be paid some compensation for vacating the room. The lesson was never go for anything without SWOT. But it was too late.

George and family were in Suryanelli. In 1974, George learned he would have to retire at the beginning of 1975. The employer was extending his service for one year each at a time after he crossed 50. George knew he had to build a house in the plot he owned. As I have recalled earlier, he had planned to build a house facing the west on this plot. The lay out for the basement was marked. Then his Uncle Kochukunjachayan advised him it would be nothing but ‘dosham’ if the house faced the west. George at once discarded the plan, unwound the ropes and a new layout facing the east was set out. It is where I stand now.

Since a house could not be constructed all at once, George built a lean to behind the shops where the family stayed for two years.

My construction was in multiple phases. Initially the basement was built just above the level of the  road that skirted Lakeview. Then assuming the road would be raised further the height of the basement was raised by another two feet. George and his elder son who was employed by then together went on to bring me to a partially finished state. The family of five began staying in this house that was me. While my interior had been plastered, the exterior was not.  The electrical wiring was temporary. I displayed hanging cables in all the rooms. But the big relief was, I was lit by electricity.

George had no pension. He didn’t have much savings either. The education of the three children took care of whatever he earned. What surprised me was, despite severe shortage of cash for their survival, the family was always happy. Laughter filled the air. They staunchly believed in God. I believe that must have pulled them on

Later, at the time of the marriage of George’s elder son, permanent wiring was done in my interior. But before that Sally, the mother of the house was afflicted with brain tumor in August 1977. It was Cancer of the worst kind, Glioblastoma. Alas, she succumbed to the illness in May 1978.

I was very happy when my exterior was plastered in 1980. I looked a complete house. But there was no mother in the house.

George lived on till 2008. He died after the mismanagement of his treatment at Pushpagiri Medical College Hospital, Tiruvalla when his hip was broken in a nasty accident at his younger son Rajesh’s house at Kurichy.

I was really happy Rajesh and his family enjoyed the hospitality I had offered. They were keeping good company for George as well. . When life went on smoothly recurring floods disrupted the peace. I began getting flooded year after year. While any prudent man would strive to rebuild the house flood safe, Rajesh chose to shift residence to Kurichy leaving George forlorn. I knew Rajesh alone wouldn’t have taken that extreme step. To put it mildly, he had been prodded to do that.

Though I and George were alone, Rajesh stayed with us for a few years till he managed a transfer to a locality closer to Kurichi.  While we were pulling along happily, a spate of illnesses forced George to leave me stranded and shift to Kurichi. George finally came back to me lifeless.

With George’s sad demise Rajesh took up my ownership. He would visit me, but never accept my hospitality. Rajesh became the owner of the shops too. He would dutifully collect the rent every month. Gopu, a two wheeler mechanic was one of the tenants.  Gopu had ensured that no one entered my compound without authorization from Rajesh. In return, Gopu had filled the compound with his vehicles and scrap. I looked dirty.

Meanwhile floodwaters were filling me with regularity. Rajesh did nothing to overcome the challenge posed by the floods. It was disheartening to watch a part the lean to where the family had stayed earlier, crumble. I was pained by Rajesh’s response. He said, “Let the whole building collapse. I am not going to spend even a single Rupee to renovate or rebuild it.” It made me understand what lay in store for me.

Later Rajesh relented and had renovated the shop building, a step that ensured Rajesh better rental earnings.

Rajesh has now earmarked me for demolition. I am awaiting the dawn of that day when I will be no more.

It was George’s fervent, ceaseless prayer to the Almighty that I should be preserved for the future. George is no more. Rajesh is preparing to construct a small house in my place to pay lip service to George’s pleadings to God, all the while affirming that he would never stay in the house, George, his father had bequeathed to him with the firm belief that his son Rajesh would stay in the house he had built for him.

George remains forgotten. In this land where people conduct memorial functions for their dear departed, I am sad, the people for whom George had toiled hard ignoring his own interests have cast him off into oblivion. There had never been any memorial functions on his behalf after George took leave from this world. 

I am placing here a few of my pictures. It plainly tells I have become dilapidated solely due to neglect. The Fridge in the pictures is a gift to George by his grandson when he learned that George did not have a Refrigerator after Rajesh took the Fridge in the house to Kurichy while shifting his residence. The gift still works very well.

Well, every life has to end somewhere. I stand here counting my days.

  

 




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Friday, November 14, 2025

EVANA'S EFFORT IN FIVE DAYS

 

            

                EVANA'S EFFORT IN FIVE DAYS

                                  TWO VIEWS







EVANA'S PATTERNS


 

                                                                                  


EVANA'S IMAGINATION


 

COCONUT SAPLINGS AT KUZHIPALLAM NURSERY // Rs.450.00 apiece // YIELDING IN 3 YEARS


 

Saturday, November 8, 2025

LOST AND FOUND

 

LOST AND FOUND

The day was like any other day. It was Friday.  Evana’s Amma was there at the Pettah Bus stop to pick her up when St. Thomas School Bus arrived at 4.30pm on the dot. She had no other go as there was no one else at home to trek the distance.

Amma is a very busy person, on, work at home. IT. She had somehow disentangled herself from her schedule on permission to proceed to Pettah.  Even while she was waiting she had to attend to calls and SMSs and respond at once.

A regular feature in her life.  

Just a kilometer.

To save time she takes an autoriksha  both to and fro.

Expensive. But her tight schedule dictated it.

On Friday she was busy more than ever. And she forgot to take out Evana’s school bag from the vehicle. The auto went off.

It was after ten minutes, it came to light the school bag was missing. It contained Evana’s text books and note books. Evana , 7 years, is in the 2nd standard.

There was no way to track the autoriksha as they did not have its Registration Number.

The entire house was in turmoil. Evana’s grandma, was visibly upset.  Her BP went on a gallop. She went out. Threw open the gate. She stood there hoping the auto would return with the bag. After a while her husband went out and told her it served no purpose.

She had a brainwave. The Residents Association had installed Cameras in the area. Her husband called Rajmohan who had the access. Unfortunately he was at Ernakulam. Rajmohan assured he’d be back the next day and he’d locate the autoriksha through theCCTV.

That was the whole issue. The autoriksha remained untraceable.

The elderly gentleman from the beginning of the episode was sitting there like a Zombie till then, the rest of the people at home had felt. They thought why he was brooding. He didn’t say anything.  He displayed no emotions.

Then he asked his wife to fish out the phone number of Anilkumar, former councilor. INCI. He called Anilkumar. He requested him to help out. “How?” was the response.

“Please circulate among your circle of workers and friends. “

Evana started crying. She was sad the bag was lost because she was careless. The grandpa pacified her. He told her it was something that happened to many children. He assured she wasn’t at fault. He suggested she’d better have some food.

The man went into an overdrive. He called Bobby, neighbour and politician. CPI. Bobby was in a meeting.  He messaged back asking for the matter in Malayalam. Ann wrote out in English and asked Google for the translation into Malayalam. The data was forwarded to Bobby. Bobby replied that it had been in the Janamaithry and two groups of autoriksha drivers.

Then the father in law asked Ann to call Roy, his nephew and seek his help. She promptly did that.

Meanwhile Ann called her husband 10km away, and apprised him of the developments. He called his friend in the Police, an SI. He suggested the  registering of a complaint with 112. Ashwin phoned his father and requested him to do that as he believed his father was pretty good in conveying such issues.

The father called 112. They were very kind. They asked for the Police Station in whose jurisdiction the incident occurred. When the reply was Pettah, they provided the phone number of Pettah P S and advised to refer the matter there. Pettah PS was also very helpful. They advised to file a complaint the next day and that necessary paper and pen were available there.

The father in law and the daughter in law then proceeded to the place from where she took the auto. It was 7pm. No autos were parked there. They waited there for some time and made enquiries. An autorksha driver who had returned by then told them, such bags are delivered either at the union office or the local Police station.

When they sought where the Union Office was with Mr.Jayaram, a shop keeper, he showed them the circulated message on his phone. He assured he would talk to the Union President and advised them to go back home.

Meanwhile the father in law called his friend, Kannan, a painter and who knew many workers at Pettah. Kannan sprang into action and spread the matter through his groups.

The father in law and the daughter in law returned home in an autoriksha. When they revealed their predicament, the driver advised them to post the matter in the Facebook and he assured they’d get the schoolbag back in no time.

Back home while they were wondering what else they needed to do, the calling bell chimed. It was Anil on his scooter with the bag. He said he was the person who drove the autoriksha. He said he had discovered the schoolbag when he reached  home. Though his wife told him to deliver it at the Police Station, his friend Sathy, another Union Leader advised him to search for any ID in the bag. Then he went to the house he had taken a passenger last. When they told him it was not theirs he was certain it belonged to this house.

He was planning to take it to the Police Station in case it did not belong here.

Evana took her bag gleefully. Her Amma tried to give some money to Anil. He declined. He wanted nothing.

Tense moments were over.  The cumbersome issue was the re-creation of the texts and the notes in case the bag was irretrievably lost.

Such a nice man, the family thought.

Three hours

Lost at 5.15pm.

Found at 8.15pm

In the interim, the message for assistance must have reached countless phones.

There is goodness in this world. Kind people abound all around.

The Schoolbag was lost… and found.

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Friday, November 7, 2025

ALL TIME VIEWS REACH 50020// I AM OVERWHELMED




I am indeed grateful to my viewers over the years when I observe that  all time viewers for the blog has crossed the magical number 50000. It is 50020 now.

Quite a landmark for an unknown writer, an alien to English language.

For whom Malayalam is the mother tongue.

Who didnot speak a word in English till the age of twenty.

Where adverse circumstances made him speak English haltingly from that age.

And write.

I am humbled by your encouragement.

I thank each and  everyone for keeping alive your interest in my posts.

You have made me what I am.

AVANTE ORU ENGLISH// HIS BLASTED ENGLISH

 



Something I found interesting. Not certain it would be for any one else.


Recently I watched the movie 'Hridayam'


A few Malayali students had secured admission in an Engineering College at Chennai. Malayali seniors were ragging Malayali juniors. Since one junior had objected he was violently targeted. Some five or six seniors ran into the room where this boy was lying down with fever. They started to beat him up. 


However there was a North Indian in the adjacent room. Though he was a Junior the Malayali seniors had never been after him with their edition of ragging.


Hearing the commotion he entered the room where the Malayali was being beaten up mercilessly. He shouted in English at the tormentors and vehemently told them to stop the beating. He further said he'd beat all of them to pulp if they continued with the violence. 


The Malayali seniors stopped the atrocity at once and trooped out like lambs.


There was a wonderful comment by Vineeth Sreenivasan as they exited, 

"Ee lokathu malayalikku pediullathu otta kariyameullu. English." (The Malayali is afraid of only thing in this world. English)



It was affirmed by the perpetrators of violence when they were in the open, "Avante oru English." (His blasted English)


Vineeth was aptly touching upon the raw nerve of the Malayali -   his epic, phenomenal weakness he would never admit or acknowledge.

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

IF ONLY PARENTS ARE MORE ENLIGHTENED

 

IF ONLY PARENTS ARE MORE ENLIGHTENED

The defining theme in almost all films in India is shaadi – marriage.

The Indian psyche revolves around marrying off the daughters at the earliest. Girls are not furnished the opportunities boys are flooded with. The norm here is conservative. It actively stops daughters from reaching their full, free potential. Daughters are weighted down with all  kinds of oppressive ideas of family ‘honour’ even as they have educational and work opportunities. The same parents who encourage their daughter’s lofty qualifications still expect her to prioritize marriage at a certain age, that too as per their choice. In the end, the fence they have preserved stays higher than the bridge they have built.

It means, for every woman who credit her parents for creating space for their ambition, countless women remain tied inside tyrannical conventions. Their dreams are crushed to guard their ‘reputation.’ There is zero justification for the neglect showered upon the daughter.

It is highly regrettable if girls are denied the opportunities parents favour the boys with. Girls must be as free as the boys to choose their own future.  They should never be held back from pursuing a brilliant career. It may be borne in mind that forcing the girls into narrow domesticity is the worst deterrent to progress.

If only  parents are more enlightened  the eventuality  could be reversed. 

K.E.EBRAHIM KUTTY // 72 IS NOT THE AGE TO GO JUST LIKE THAT

 

                                                               

Malayala Manorama 
5th November 2025

Mr. K.E.Ebrahim Kutty (72) Under Secretary (retd) Kerala Public Service Commission 
passed away on 4.11.2025. 

He had succumbed  to the injuries sustained  in a tragic road  accident at Ulloor on 2.11.2025.  It was a hit and run at 4.32 pm that day. As he had been critically injured he was under treatment at KIMS Hospital, Trivandrum. But his life could not be saved.

                                                                       


                                                                         



The news shocked everyone who knew him. They couldn't believe it.
72 is not the age to go just like that.
It was not his fault at all. But someone has to be accountable. 
It is the callous indifference of the system that refuse to plan ahead.
For them it is one more on the road. Plain statistics. 
But the one who has gone is gone forever. The loss to the family is immesureable. Irreparable. Inexplicable.
They are left staring at a dark future. 
His friends have lost their greatest friend ever.
For the society, the good samaritan will never be there.

He had been multifaceted - as a son, husband, father, grandfather, friend, PSC Official and neighbour. 

The PSC Nagar was established at the Neerazhi Lane on his initiative. He was instrumental in ensuring proper maintenance of the road to the PSC Nagar. He had acted in amateur dramas. His neighbours recall that he would be going out for various purposes ten or twelve times day. Two of these were  for seeing off  his grandchild to the school and to receive the child on the way back. He had kept himself busy and active.

At home everything revolved around him. 

The poet once said,"What if the centre cannot hold."

His wife Razia was a very good friend of Lila. They were colleagues. They used to converse over phone on the 1st of every month. Razia did not break it even when they were staying with their daughter in England for a while. 

He had a fine sense of humour. One day he had remarked, "Nammal nellu kuthy chorundu. Innu ellavarum mobile kuthy chorunnunnu." Roughly translated into English it is, "We dehusked the paddy through hand pounding and ate the rice. Today we eat rice while hand pounding the mobile."
 
On that fateful day, he had set out from home on his scooter for a hair cut at the saloon. He parked the sccoter in front of a shop where Neerazhi lane branched off from the National highway and where the traffic is quite heavy.    Then he  walked on to his destination. Something he did as a routine several times a day. All through his life. 

But it was different this time.

He was very helpful to his neighbours. He was there for all their needs

He was very affectionate. The couple bonded well. Loved each other. 
It was a wonderful family.

He taught Malayalam online to his grandchild in England.

As both of them were employed and since they had no one to entrust the children with after the maternity leave of ninety days was over, they had to put the children in the nursery. Though it was  painful to them as parents, the children were well looked after by the nurses there.  The children grew up and did well in studies - one is a doctor and the other an engineer.

Yes, Allah had blessed them all abundantly until tragedy struck out of the blue.

Though shattered, it is certain the family would hold together and their resilence would lead them on.

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Deepti Sharma




 Quote for the day


WHAT GOD HAS WRITTEN FOR YOU HAPPENS ONLY AT THE RIGHT TIME


Deepti Sharma, all-rounder in cricket, who became the first cricketer to score a half century - 58 runs - and claim five wickets in a World Cup match.


It's something we all know but never take to heart.


Deepti continues, " It took us really long to win the World Cup."

" It was destined to happen in India."


Times of India

4.11.2025                             .

Monday, November 3, 2025

Shafali Verma

Shafali Verma

"What happened with Pratika wasn't good - no one wants to see a Player injured.

But maybe God has sent me here to do something good."

(Shafali was suddenly parachuted into India's squad on the eve of the 2025 Women's ODI World Cup semifinal against Australia - despite not even being in the reserves - she spoke with calm about her unexpected recall. It occured when the in form Pratika Rawal had been ruled out with ankle and knee  injuries sustained while fielding in an earlier match)

Times of India.                                              3.11.2025

Please  highlight the sentence, "But maybe God has sent me here to do something good."

The message is for those  who read this post.

Sunday, November 2, 2025

ROHAN BOPANNA BOWS OUT

 Rohan Bopanna bowed out of competitive arena in Tennis at the age of 45. 

He had amassed a 539-410 win-loss record in over two decades as a professional.

He is a two-time Major winner- 2024 Australian Open men's doubles and 2017 Roland Garros mixed doubles.

The 6ft 4' Kodava fought his way from Madapur. a small town in Coorg.

He wrote, "How do you bid farewell to something that gave your life its meaning?

After 20 unforgettable years, It's time.  I'm officially hanging up my raquet. Starting from a small town in Coorg, from chopping wood to strengthen my serve, and jogging through coffee estates to build stamina, to standing under the lights of the biggest arenas in the world-it feels surreal.

I may be stepping away from competition, but my story with tennis isn't over. I want to give back to help young dreamers believe that their beginnings don't define their limits. 

And that with belief, hard work, and heart anything is possible.

This isn't good bye...it's a thank you to everyone who shaped me, supported me and loved me.

Representing India has been the greatest honour of my life, every time I stepped on court, I played for that flag, that feeling, that pride."


Times of India 2.11.2025


Harmanpreet Kaur

 Harmanpreet Kaur, Skipper, Indian Women Cricket team on the eve of the final of the World Cup


"We know how it feels to lose. But we are looking forward to how it feels to win. Hopefully tomorrow will be a special day for us. We've worked very hard - it's now about getting everything right for the team."

Saturday, November 1, 2025

JEMIMAH RODRIGUES

 



It was euphoric.

Times of India of 31stOctober2025 flashed the heady news on the front page with a picture of Jemimah Rodrigues holding her hands stretched skywards  and her eyes overflowing with tears of joy.

GEM-IMAH TAKES INDIA TO WC FINAL

"I want to thank Jesus...my mom, dad and coach and every single person who believed in me....I have almost cried every day through this tour. Not doing well mentally, going through anxiety. Towards the end, I was just quoting from the Bible - to just stand still and that God will fight for me."

The report went on:

Jemimah Rodrigues hit an unforgettable, unbeaten 127 as India (341/5) pulled off a world record chase against Australia (338) to hand the defending champs their first defeat in an ODI World Cup match since 2017 and knock them out of the tournament. The women in Blue will now take on South Africa in the final on Sunday, 2ndNovember2025


JEMIMAH RODRIGUES  THE MATCH WINNER

In the 33rd over of the chase, Jemimah had run out of gas. Batting on 83, having been on the field for 50 overs before that, Jemimah  slog swept Alana King – a shot born of weary limbs, a mind under pressure, emotions pressure-cooked – straight up in the air. Alyssa Healy ran across and failed to hold on.

Jemimah took a moment, and scripture came to her: Stand still and God will fight for me. This was not a desperate cry for help although that would have been perfectly justified in a moment when body, mind and soul have been stretched to the limit. It was Jemimah recognizing a moment, placing herself in the larger scheme of things and becoming the vehicle that would deliver.

Jemimah stood tall, for three hours and thirteen minutes, facing 134 balls for her unbeaten 127 in a World Cup semi final against the best team of all time. She celebrated neither her 50 nor her 100, because Jemimah was in the zone. This was no longer about her. It was about doing what was needed for the team and the country.

Her single minded focus was on hunting down the target.  When Deepti Sharma and Richa Ghosh played precisely the knocks the team needed in the moment with their blinders, it unlocked a second wind in Jemimah that allowed her to tap into reserves she may not have known that existed in her till then.

Jemimah’s presence at the crease – busy, purposeful, defiant, dogged, calm and charged up – more than sealed one end up. She was successfully turning the tables on India’s perennial weakness – the lack of mental toughness to win key moments – that opened up with the fall of Harmanpreet Kaur.

Jemimah willed herself to go on with the mental toughness that puts mind over matter. It was not overcoming the challenge through sheer will alone. It was self empowerment through surrender to the strength of Jesus, her savior. Jemimah was her 100% self who connected with the God of her choosing, of her imagination and not an ephemeral power.

She channeled her fight into an innings for history books. She endured and reached a place from which she could thank her parents in front of the entire world in the greatest moment of her life. The tears of relief streaming down did not blind her to the struggles she had faced.  She thanked her teammates for checking on her, for standing silently at her net sessions, for believing in her when she couldn’t.

In the post match conference she said, “I have cried almost every day through this tour. I was not doing well mentally. I’ll be very vulnerable here. Someone who is watching this might be going through the same thing. Nobody likes to talk about their weaknesses. I used to call my mum and cry, letting it all out. When you are going through anxiety, you feel numb. You don’t know what to do. You are trying to be yourself.”

“I am so blessed to have friends, I can call family. I didn’t have to go through it alone. And it’s okay to ask for help. My family went through a lot. But my mum and dad supported me, stood by me and believed in me when I couldn’t. Sometimes all you need to do is to hang in there and things fall into place. I am very grateful to those who believed in me and understood me. I know I couldn’t have done it alone.”

During her century in the semifinal, Jemimah was often seen dropping to her knees.  She revealed these were moments of silent prayers, smiling through tears. “I was praying. I was talking to God. I did it because I feel I have a personal relationship with Him.  When I can’t carry myself, He always carries me.  I was talking to myself because I had lost a lot of energy. I was feeling very tired. It was a tricky phase. I was wondering whether I should hit out. The learning was to stay there. I played to make sure India won. That was my sole motivation. My thought process was simple. I just had to be there till the end. When you play for the team, not yourself, God favors you.”’

No male cricketer has displayed this level of strength through vulnerability in the public glare and Jemimah has set down the marker. On the field and off it, she lifted everyone around her with her fierce strength and gentle wisdom.  Jemimah touched the world and changed the universe, all by her tiny self. She is just too humble to realize it now.

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Based on the report by Gaurav Gupta and the article in the editorial folio, ‘Jem of a Player & Person’ by Anand Vasu, sports commentator, in the Times of India of 1st November2025.

 

Sunday, October 26, 2025

INCARNATION

 Dr. Susan Thomas on 

RevDrKCAbraham

On one Christmas occasion 

Achen explained incarnation from his life's experience.

He said Divine becoming human is a very difficult and painful process.

For me to play with Lizza is the most challenging and painful act. 

I can preach and teach an intellectual group without much effort. 

But to be with Lizza and to be on her level, I need to give up and be like her in thought and action.

It is the most profound way of explaining Theology.

Lizza was his daughter. 

She was a normal child till meningitis disabled her.

WE NEVER ARE THE WINNERS OR THE LOSERS

 Quoting from a novel in Malayalam


It's a civil suit listed for trial.


The complainant says she is afraid and that she shivers when she thinks of the court.


Her aunt soothes her. She tells her there's no need to be afraid. Nobody is going to hang her. She has to treat it as a different experience. She must  understand that life itself is a school.


The complainant asks again why should she proceed with a case where she's going to be the loser.


The aunt reveals her view of life.

"We are never going to be the winners or the losers. It is the contentions that are the winners or the losers. We will cross that whenever it occurs and we will go ahead unmindful of the outcome."

Saturday, October 25, 2025

SCRAP SHEET ON EVANA'S TABLE ON THE MORNING 25TH OCTOBER 2025

 


LIZA'S HOME

 In Bangalore there is a LIZA'S HOME.

Liza was a healthy child. Meningitis disabled her.

Her mother is a doctor. Father was the late Rev.Dr. KCAbraham.

I have a copy of a book, Snehathinte Bhasha,  by her mother Dr Molly Abraham.

Posting:

1. Something I found there

2. Front and back cover pages.

The Pastor had been well known globally. Their son Ajith is in the USA.

Think, if googled more data would be there on LIZA'S HOME. 


Dr Molly Abraham

Snehathinte Bhasha

Excerpts 

"This reinforces the whole process where we do our part, and God will open the ways as He sees fit, through people we cannot imagine nor plan for."

"While it would have looked an obvious choice that we stayed back in the US, which would have worked well for Liza, Achen and I recognized that our calling was to come back to India, and not just be limited to taking care of Liza but to open up a new world for all girls and women like Liza, young and old."

"Stories are plenty of God's faithfulness, and our answered prayers. Whenever there is a need, a cry would go up to God, and God will answer the cry. We saw God and God saw us."

It feels more than appropriate to say, "I see the One who sees me.'"


                                              

      

   



                                    

                                            


                                              








Friday, October 24, 2025

SPARTAN MENTALITY// LEADERS// LEADERSHIP

 


A 'Spartan Mentality' refers to intense self discipline,  simplicity, austerity and resilience on the face of adversity. It mirrors the ancient Greek City State of Sparta's highly militarized and self denying life style. The mindset emphasizes avoiding luxury, enduring hardship, focussing on  duty and collective success and maintaining a resolute, uncompromising approach to achieving goals.

The true leader succeeds when he brings the spartan mentallity to his team.  It leaves no room for failure or mediocrity in the bid to accomplish the task on hand. There is no option to lose out either. The leader assigns varying roles to the members of the team. He ensures each one fulfils the roles assigned. You just have to give off your best and everything in the struggle to attain the goal.

When the leader exhibis tremendous faith in the members of the team, they respond.

The resultant resurgence is unsurpassable . 

James Augustus Hickey, Publisher and Chief Editor, The Bengal Gazette

 "Shall I gamely submit to the yoke of slavery and wanton aggression?"


James Augustus Hickey, Publisher and Chief Editor, The Bengal Gazette,

 loudly asked this question and proclaimed 

he'd stand for truth, self respect and independence.


Of course, the british dealt with him harshly

Sunday, October 19, 2025

GREGORY ALOSIUS OF LANDSDOWN

 


Gregory Alosius was an immensely rich farmer in Landsdown. His landholdings had been bequeathed to him by his ancestors. Agriculture had kept the family affluent. When Gregory had children of his own he did not bind them to agriculture. Knowing fully well the setbacks he faced in  life because of the marginal education he had had,  he educated  his children to the utmost.

The children, six sons and four daughters,  are now grown ups. They have done well in life. They are in many countries across the world except for two sons who chose to stay back and manage the huge assets and the extensive business empire Gregory had assiduously built up and nurtured.

Since Gregory held properties in prime locations and because he knew diversification was the key, he had constructed six multi storeyed buildings in those properties. They had been promptly leased as there were many takers.

When Gregory passed away in ripe old age, all his holdings were passed on to his successors. 

Look how they had maintained one of the  buildings  for almost 15 years. It was sheer callousness and mule headedness. They detested those who reminded them the building should not be left to crumble. The stock reply over those years of belligerence had been, they won't spend even a penny for its renovation. They reiterated their view time and again that they wouldn't mind if the building imploded or collapsed by itself. It was as if their illustrious ancestor had hoisted upon them an unwanted element much to their dislike or discomfiture. To be fair, they had no animosity towards the  five buildings that had been maintained very well. However, it had been a mystery to all and sundry why one building alone was left to rot.

Fortunately, better senses prevailed after a long time and the dilapidation had passed off into history. Yet what had once been an eyesore could never be erased from the chequered life of the building that at present sports a glamorous look.

Here are the devastating pictures of the dark era.




                                                                               











                                                                                  
































Saturday, October 18, 2025

CINEMA // JAVED AKHTAR

 Javed Akhtar


If you find something wrong in a film, it's more likely a societal problem


He says what you see on screen is often a reflection of what the writer and director dream about society.


Dreams that you remember are made of your concerns, insecurity, ambition, hopes, disappointments etc.


What you see in cinema is the manifestation of what's happening in society

JAVED AKHTAR // MAKING OF A WRITER

 Javed Akhtar


The very ambition of writing comes from wanting to say something.

Even senior writers for the last 30-50 years have to think about what they want to say, what are the right words for it and how to put them on paper.


Many people can be good writers but they give up. Often they criticise what they write, sometimes chucking it altogether and starting afresh.


Gradually by rejecting your own writing and trying again, you find the right path.

Wednesday, October 15, 2025

Ranji Trophy Cricket // On The Kerala Team // Runners up in 2025


There was an article  on the Kerala Cricket team for the Ranji Trophy Cricket Tournament
in the sports page of Times of India of 14 October 2025. 
Kerala is taking on  Maharashtra from 15th October for the 2025 - 2026 edition.
The Kerala team had reached the finals of the Ranji Trophy Cricket Tournament for 
the first time in the  history of the tournament in 2025.
Though they fought hard they had lost to a resurgent Vidarbha Team
 who were a step ahead of them.

The article concluded,

"The Greenfield stadium is not just hosting a game - it holds the weight of unfinished business.

This isn't a team starting over. It's a team starting forward - unafraid of the future, driven by hunger. and built to chase what they now know is possible."

If  we switch it to our own lives, it leaves a message for us.

"Yes, there is a lot to accomplish. There is a lot to rectify. Fight. Fight. Fight."


Sunday, October 12, 2025

This is the story of Evangelist K C Sunny

 

The musical group, Boney M, has a very popular song ‘El Lute’. It begins, ‘This is the story of El Lute.’

Somehow when I heard Thengakal, my mind travelled to El Lute.

I shirked it off and look where it has taken me.

Here it is, ‘This is the story of Evangelist K C Sunny’.

Evangelist KC Sunny is the Catechist at the CSI Church, Thengakal. When I first heard the name Thengakal I had thought it was a God forsaken land at infinity. But it is not. It is a Tea Estate owned by the RBT Company.

RBT Company was one of the plantation companies operating in the Peermade area, that includes Vandiperiyar. 

The RBT Company was associated with plantations in the Peermade region of Kerala, including Vandiperiyar. But it appears to have been taken over by groups like POABS and has experienced issues such as workers' wages not being paid. The specific "rbtcompany plantation.vandiperiyar" refers to the estates previously managed by RBT, such as those in the POABS group, that were involved in tea production.

 The RBT Company in Peermade was a subsidiary of a British company, Travancore Estate (UK) Ltd, that owned the tea estates before Indian Independence. The estates were eventually taken over by other groups, including CBS Group and MMS Group, in the context of a land dispute with the original British owner. 

The original owner of the 6,127 acres of tea estates in Peermade, including properties like Kozhikkanam, Pambanar, and Manjumala, was the British firm Travancore Estate (UK) Ltd.

After the British left, RBT Company's land was taken over by either the CBS Group or the MMS Group, according to a joint workers' union.

In 2017, the special officer appointed by the government issued a notice to both the RBT Company (CBS Group) and RBT Company (MMS Group) to vacate these lands, indicating a complex transfer of ownership in the post-independence era.

In May 2025, The Hindu reported that seven tea estates under the POABS group in Vandiperiyar, including former RBT estates, were facing a threat of closure due to the management failing to pay wages to workers for several months. 

Key Estates involved (previously RBT, now under POABS): were, PambanarGranbyMunjamullayNellikaiThengakalInjikadu, and Pasumallay (Pashumala).

The current status is that the RBT Company has abandoned the plantation since 2005.

 Now, let’s move back to Thengakal Tea Estate.

 

The workers there mostly are Tamils. Many among them were CSI Christians. They had no Church for their Sunday Worship. However some among the managerial and the supervisory staff had influenced the management to donate 30 cents of land to the CSI in order to build a Church and conduct worships on Sundays for the workers.

  The Thengakal Church is now a part of the CSI East Kerala Diocese. The Thengakal CSI Church and the parsonage stand on 30 cents of land donated by the RBT Company

 Evangelist, Mr.  K C Sunny serves the Church as the Catechist at the current juncture. He dons the white cassock with a white rope like cord known as Cincture or Girdle tied around the waist.

.As life was difficult for them at Pallom where they belonged, Sunny's father and his three brothers, Syrian Christians, had left Pallom for Upputhara. They were among the initial settlers at Upputhara where they took over a good area of forest. The CSI Church at Upputhara stands on the land donated by his family.   The family’s property at Pallom had bordered the property of Bishop Rt.Rev.C K Jacob, the first Moderator of the Church of South India and the Bishop of the Anglican Diocese of Travancore and Cochin.

 K C Sunny has two sons.  Both are married.

 They are:-

 1.   Rev Shijo K Sunny who has an MA in Sociology from the CMS College, Kottayam and BD from Guntur. He is a Pastor in the CSI East Kerala Diocese. He is married to the daughter – an MLT - of a Church Worker – Upadeshi – of the CSI, hailing from Ayroor, Kozhencherry. 

While Sunny had been posted at Melukavu, Shijo was commuting everyday by bus from Melukavu to Kottayam and back for his studies at the CMS College. It was quite tough. He had to catch the 6am bus in his pursuit of higher education.

  2.  Lijo, who has an MSc in Physics from the MES College at Nedumkandam. After completion of his studies he was on the verge of securing a job at Italy. But the onset of Covid had prevented his departure from India. He now carries on with his own business venture  at Pampakuda.  He is married. They are blessed with a child.

  The Thengakal CSI Church has 40 families as its members. Almost all of them are the workers of the defunct Thengakal Tea Estate. They are at present unemployed with no steady income. They survive carrying on odd jobs wherever available. They work at the Weekly Market as well. In order to help them secure work at the Market that functions from 9.30 am, the Worship at the Church is invariably concluded at 9.30 am.

 The  Evangelist,  KCSunny serves them as the Catechist at the Church looking after their Pastoral needs.  Sunny at times, from his own limited resources, is forced to lend his members a helping hand whenever they are in financial exigencies.

 The Catechist has no mandate to conduct baptisms or weddings. These are done by ordained Pastors from nearby CSI Churches.  But the Catechist is empowered to conduct the burial services at the Church.

 Sunny conducts the Worship at the church on all Sundays. However, the Holy Eucharist is performed only once in a month at the Thengakal Church by the visiting Pastor from the CSI Church at Haileyburia Tea Estate.

 Recently, the CSI Church at Madurai had extended financial assistance of Rs.75000.00 to the Thengakal CSI Church towards the construction of its altar. However, the Madurai Church was unhappy when no one turned up at Madurai  from Thengakal  to express gratitude for the magnificent gesture.

 Sunny says expressing gratitude is a feature quite alien to the Malayali.

 He, however, made it to Madurai along with a senior member from his Church. He was happy the Madurai Church had provided him an opportunity to join the conduct of the worship along with the Pastor and the four Catechists. The latter assist the Pastor in the Holy Eucharist where they serve the wine after the wafers are served by the Pastor.

He was quite impressed by the Worship at the Madurai Church that was attended by 2500 worshippers and where the Offertory was very substantial on a Sunday.

 Sunny, 65, who is set to retire in 2027/2028, is at a disadvantage. He is homeless, except for the Parsonage provided by the Church he serves.

 He did have his own property. But he had to sell that off when his wife who hails from Pala was afflicted with breast cancer. He said he did it as they loved each other very much. Her treatment was at the Medical College Hospital, Kottayam where she had to undergo mastectomy. She was put through 8 Chemos as well.  They had to buy all the medicines and meet the entire expenses of the tests at the MCH. True, costly treatment in time had saved her life. It is six years now. There still are reviews every six months.

 According to Sunny, his wife does have health issues. She can’t travel much. Both her legs are weak. She can’t stand for long either. A Cancer survivor, she does all the cooking at home and shoulders the housekeeping functions with élan.

 Sunny serves his Lord with all his might. He knows, though he has no house of his own to stay after his retirement – he is due to retire in two years – Jesus is sufficient for him. He knows he has nothing to fear. He knows for certain the God in whom he believes and puts his trust on will not forsake him. He knows for certain God will lead him to his own house when he retires from the service with the CSI East Kerala Diocese.

Faith does wonders. Absolute faith harbingers miracles.

                                                                                                                     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



 

 Evangelist KCSunny His wife had Breast Cancer. Treatment at MCH Kottayam. Mastectomy of a breast. He has to buy all medicuines meet costs of tests. It is six yeras She has to go for review every 6 months had surgery and 8 chemos. She has health issues. both legs are weak. can't travel much.Can't stand much Can't take too much strain

does all the cooking including food for guests

he had to sell his property  for treastment.

no house. no place to go after retirement

Wife is from Pala. Catholic origin. Her father married from CSI and joined CSI

Their family house is next to the famous mental facility at Pala

65 two years left to retire in 2028. He has no property as he had to sell off his property for his wife,s treatment. He had to do it as they loved each other. He doesn't have a house to stay after retirement in 2028. But he is certain the good god would provide.

Catechist at CSI Thengakal Pastorate since two years. Thngakal is 16 kms from Periyar -Vandiperiyar

Thenkal is a closed Tea Estate. You can reach the place catching a bus from Vandiperiyar. The first bus starts at 7 am. If you wish to traverse the distance earlier to that it's rs.500 for autoriksha. Part of High Range the weather is cold. Heavy rains. It belonged RBT company. They have abandoned the plantation. Workers have no jobs.Tamilians who know malayalam well They do odd jobs

Sunday worship starts at 8am closes at 9.30 am 80 families . They are happy to contibute in the offertory. but the means are limited The closure of tehworship  cannot be delayed because the members have to go to the market for their livelihood

The Thengakal CSI Church and the parsonage stands on 30 cents of land donated by RBT Company. through the influence of CSI officials in the company

Son of migrants from Pallom to Upputhara Syrian. Their family property at Pallom borders the property of Bishop Rt.Rev.CKJacob, the first Moderator of CSI Church of South India and the Bishop of the Anglican Diocese of Travancore and Cochin

 Sunny's father and three brothers left Pallom. Migrated. They took over a good area of forest. They were among the initial settlers at Upputhara. The CSI Church at Upputhara stands on the land donated by his family

two sons both married

1.Rev Shijo K Sunny MA Sociaology CMS Kottayam BD from guntur Pastor EKD married to a the daughter MLT of a retd upadeshi from Airoor 

Travelled from Melukavu to Kottayam everyday by bus for MA. Leaving at 6am Bus Sunny was at melukavu

2. Lijo MSc Physics MES Nedumkandam Tried to go to Italy. Covid prevented it Doing business at Pampakuda Married with a child

 

CSI madurai helped the church for construction 75000. They expressed displeasure at no one going from there to Madurai to express thanks. Sunny says expressing gratitude is alien to malyali

 

He says the worship at the Church at Madurai

 is attended by 2500 people. Offertory is 2.5 lacs a Sunday. they have 4 catechists who assist the achen in holy commeunion achen gives wafers they wine

 

sunny can do burial

no baptism or wedding

the church service he conducts. once in a month the Achen from Hekebria estate church conduct holy communion

He is robbed white cassock with white rope like cord known as Cincture or Girdle tied around the waist

 

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The RBT Company was associated with plantations in the Peermade region of Kerala, including Vandiperiyar, but it appears to have been taken over by groups like POABS and has experienced issues such as workers' wages not being paid. The specific "rbtcompany plantation.vandiperiyar" refers to the estates previously managed by RBT, such as those in the POABS group, which were involved in tea production. 

Details about the RBT Company connection:

·         Historical Association: RBT Company was one of the plantation companies operating in the Peermade area, which includes Vandiperiyar. 

·         Takeover by POABS: The RBT Company's estates were taken over by the POABS group. 

·         Recent Crisis: In May 2025, The Hindu reported that seven tea estates under the POABS group in Vandiperiyar, including former RBT estates, were facing a threat of closure due to the management failing to pay wages to workers for several months. 

Key Estates involved (previously RBT, now under POABS): 

PambanarGranbyMunjamullayNellikaiThengakalInjikadu, and Pasumallay (Pashumala).

The RBT Company in Peermade was a subsidiary of a British company, Travancore Estate (UK) Ltd, which owned the tea estates before Indian Independence. The estates were eventually taken over by other groups, including CBS Group and MMS Group, in the context of a land dispute with the original British owner. 

Key details about the ownership of the RBT Company estates: 

·         Pre-Independence Ownership:

The original owner of the 6,127 acres of tea estates in Peermade, including properties like Kozhikknam, Pambanar, and Manjumala, was the British firm Travancore Estate (UK) Ltd.

·         Post-Independence Status:

After the British left, the RBT Company's land was taken over by either the CBS Group or the MMS Group, according to a joint workers' union.

·         Land Dispute:

In 2017, the special officer appointed by the government issued a notice to both the RBT Company (CBS Group) and RBT Company (MMS Group) to vacate these lands, indicating a complex transfer of ownership in the post-independence era.

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