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Monday, June 30, 2025

ZERO TOLERANCE

 

ZERO TOLERANCE

 

An ever vibrant and effective administration does not believe in exercising control everywhere.

 

It will never be restrictive, but it will be responsive.

 

It does not enter into all domains.

 

It limits itself to its assigned role and encourages the people to evolve themselves

 

It ensures there is compliance with the statutes

 

The administration’s strength lies in its humility

 

Bleak future is in store  when the administration  swerves  from zero tolerance to sloth

 

MEENACHIL RIVER OF WESTERN GHATS


An author had gifted me her creation a couple of months back. It had the author's email id and phone number.

As I had enough on hand it took some time for me to go through it.

It was amazing.

I posted the following in the id.

"Good Evening Ma'm

This is ..., ........

.........'s ......

Hope you'd recognise 

I have just been through the book you had gifted.

MEENACHIL RIVER OF WESTERN GHATS

Congratulations for bringing out such a wonderful creation.

It speaks vehemently on the plight of the Meenachil River and the efforts for its restoration.

It taught me Ramsar is an Iranian city and is the yardstick for the preservation of wetlands.

The information on Flora and Fauna is excellent.

The narrative details the origin of the river and what it means to the people who reside on its shores. It tells the name is drawn from the Madura Meenakshi temple - something I  and probably many never knew.

The language is superb, flawless. The pictures are a treat. Repetition, a curse in many presentations, is just not visible here. And it is devoid of glorification of the self.

Yes, it is comprehensive.  It is a call to humanity to preserve nature.

The tables and the technical terms were Greek to me as I had never been initiated in biology.

The Preface and the Acknowledgement exemplify the humility of the author.

It's indeed a great effort. 

Altogether, a must read."

There was no reply for two days. Then I thought I must check if the message had reached the destination.

I phoned one day in the morning. It was not answered. I left it there presuming the author must be engaged at the workplace gasping for breath.

In the evening I tried the number once again. The phone was picked up.

I introduced myself telling I was ...'s ......... The writer is closely related to the person. She asked whether I was .........'s ......... I said yes. She said she was busy with her job and whether I would mind if she called me later. I said, please.

I am still waiting for that elusive call.

I was sharing the experience with ..... just now with the comment, "I don't think the effort in reviewing the book was a wasted one as it had enabled me to refine my capability a little more."



CSI CHURCH OF SOUTH INDIA

 CSI  has enough brilliant minds. 

It doesn't  need any more 

of the  crooked.  

CSI needs burning hearts....

Sunday, June 29, 2025

TRAVANCORE FRESH SUPERMARKET

 

TRAVANCORE FRESH SUPERMARKET

 

We were very happy for Ashwin when he completed his MBA  with a First Class. However, it was the time when jobs were difficult to come by. Ashwin went out in search of a position. The hunt went on. Fortunately he found a job in a Company at the Technopark. Like all the Techies at that time, who were jumping from one to another, he switched from his job to a placement in an export  firm. A couple of months later he left that job with an idea to go into the retail business. Marketing and Finance were his topics for  MBA.

Travancore Fresh.Supermarket, a start up was thus born in the year 2019. The going was tough initially. It still is, though it’s six years now.

Theory and practice are a world apart. Before going into the retail venture, he had worked for Reliance Retail for a few months.  But working for a retail behemoth and struggling with a start up are not alike.

He had to find a suitable and affordable place. He scouted several areas for almost two years. He travelled to several shops on his bike. Standing outside the shops he counted the foot falls. In between he would enter the shops, spend some time there and buy something and get off. Once he was in the shop, he observed the arrangements in it, the customer service and the customer preferences.

He zeroed in on a building at Vandithadom, near Pachalloor and Tiruvallom and 2 kms to Kovalam and Vizhinjam. Vandithadaom is 10kms away from the heart of Thiruvananthapuram. It’s basically a residential locality with not much industrial activity.

Travancore Fresh.Supermarket was established in the building he located. For competition, it had four or five similar shops in the neighbourhood. After he had opened the shop, a few more such shops had come up in the proximity. The more the merrier, he maintains.

The shop was built from scratch. It now functions on two floors. It is well stocked.

When it had opened, the customer inflow was limited. It is gradually.growing.

Covid 19 was the big challenge. There was sanction for the functioning of the shop. However the restrictions had impeded its working. For many days he had to manage everything himself. Fear drove the staff away.  

As Covid 19 wore off the functioning of the shop was back to normal.

It is open from 9 AM to 9 PM. The customers call it “Margin Free.’ Wherever he could, he charges less. The customers flock in.

 Yes, Ashwin believes volume drives business.

Relive those days

Lila recently told me she had been invited by her friends to their periodic rendezvous.

I said she could go ahead. There was no need to ask me.

She responded she'd prepare the food for us and  proceed.

No need for that I said and added:

I am castigating you.

While I admire your concern for all of us at home, the unfettered love and affection you shower upon us, I know very well whatever we give back will be no match for your sacrifice over the years since we came together. 

For one day I want you to go back and be the girl you were from 1969 to 1976. Relive those days of boundless energy and the carefree life. 

Enjoy.

It's great that despite the travails of life that puts roadblocks at all junctures, you along with your bosom friends  assemble at intervals  and immerse yourselves in the friendship you have assiduously cultivated over the years.

Forget everything else and light up the moment.

Grab the opportunities that come your way. 

Never discard them.

Saturday, June 28, 2025

Senegalese President Bassirou Diomaye Fayel

 The young Senegalese President Bassirou Diomaye Fayel said,

  "I don’t want my photographs in your offices 

because I am neither a god nor an icon—

I am a servant of the nation. 

 Instead, hang pictures of your children and look at them 

whenever you need to make a decision. 

And if the temptation to steal ever arises, 

take a good look at your family’s picture 

and ask yourself if they deserve

 to be the family of a thief

 who has betrayed the nation."     

Valid points wherever personal or public finances are involved


 We belong to the CSI. The Church of South India. 

The Church we attend has a large membership.

The authorities of the Church recently came up with 

several projects that called for substantial investments.

While we  have nothing against the authorities and the projects

they have presented for approval

we called for a few clarifications.

We wrote to them:

(Placing it here because these are valid points wherever personal or public finances are involved)


Go for simple answers.

1. How do you manage your own finances?

2. Especially on the home front.

3. Do you buy a Rolls Royce when your savings is low or is  non existent?

4. They say ' A bird in hand is worth two in the bush'

5. Do you plan for the two in the bush?

6. Then you are nowhere. 

7. You are bound to fail.

8. Here, grandiose schemes are envisaged.

9. You embark on your fancy ideas without funds in the kitty

10. 'God will provide' is what you make out.

11. Here the members have to shell out

12. What happens if they don't?

13. You end up the loser.

14. Do you go for a due diligence, before you begin?

15. Do you conduct a SWOT analysis?

16. When you go for a high investment project do you evaluate the ROI - return on investment plus the time span?

17. And cost escalation?

18. How do you project the probable income.?

19. Is it on 100% or 50% occupancy?

20. Are you aware 50% occupancy is the norm?

21. Do you introspect and assess if the project is absolutely essential?

22. Is your procurement on commission basis?

23. Who are the beneficiaries?

24. How can you pay more than Rs.10000 in cash to a single person on a single day?

25. Are you making payment through Account payee cheques? 

26. If not, if you cross the threshold of 20 lakhs are you aware, you are bound to pay cash transaction charges?

27. Why do you keep very large balances in SB accounts?

28. Can't you reduce  it to  1lakh and transfer the rest to term deposits in multiples of 1 lakh each? Do you know you can go for premature closure when in need?

29. In a church like ours we can happily put a total of  1lakh per month in three or four recurring deposits for a period of one year  through SI - standing instruction. Do we do that in order to enable us  -  at the end of the period of one year - have access to 12lakhs  that could fulfil our divergent needs?

30. Why can't we emulate the St Thomas Educational Society who have built everything from scratch?

31. While the mission of CSI is mission do we indulge in that mission  for the members of  our own congregation?

32. If we go on with the notion we would spend when we have money in our kitty, do we ever perceive it may dry up?

33. Have you ever thought building rooms for renting out  - if perceived  - is a crazy idea as the implications are manifold?

34. Money is scarce. When the tussle is between lower and higher outgo what will you do if it is your own finances?

35. Why do we have large advances?

36. Are you aware no one has  the power to dole out such advances at will and if you do that elsewhere you face prospects of summary dismissal and possible terms in the prison if there is violation of any kind?

37. Do you know misutilization of public funds is a crime?

38. When the policies of the banks render chargeable,  more than three remittances into the SB ac in a month, what prevents us from opening one or two more SB acs to offset such charges?

39. How can we hide behind the term GRACE when we err?

40. Why did we bring back the current CA? What was wrong with the previous CA?

41. Once we received an interesting answer from a former Treasurer for the large balances in SB ac and the large cash balance held by the Treasurer throughout the year. He said the Church had various construction projects where cash had to be disbursed. I didn't ask, but were all the projects approved at the appropriate level ? 

42. Is it happening here - When someone approaches somebody  in the Church for a personal loan from that person,  is that request placed before the Church knowing very well it would have to be  written off if it is given out from own sources?

43. Do we make sure our grants and financial assistances on applications received are properly deployed?

44. Finally, the Church is nothing but  its own constituents. The Church belongs to God. It should not be run or managed on the whims and fancies of a few. Do we deviate?


Am I making progress towards eliminating this problem?

 We are in business. 

It's retail.

Very small in size.

Before we began we went to a friend for advice.

He had been in such a business, for years together.

He encouraged us to go ahead. 

The sole caution he advocated was, 

'never stock too high'

What we didn't realise was, 

it was Product Market Fit,

he had advised.

But we religiously followed him. 

And we have survived. 


Uri Levine is the master 

on PMF.

He elaborates.


When you start with the solution, 

you might be building something no one cares about. 

It is frustrating when you have invested so much effort, time and money.


When you focus on the solution rather than the problem, 

you fail because you are unable to figure out PMF - Product Market Fit - correctly.


When you start with the problem, you create value. 

Your story will be much simpler and engaging.

People connect to that understanding the frustration.


Ask yourselves everyday, ' Am I making progress towards eliminating this problem?'


URI LEVINE

Fall in love with the problem, not the solution

Friday, June 27, 2025

BREAST CANCER / DENSE BREASTS

 

BREAST CANCER / DENSE BREASTS

It had been an annual routine. Papa used to take the whole family to Kunthirical, Thalavady to spend some time with his parents. One day I heard Papa admonishing Mummy for visiting an ailing lady in the neighbourhood who had been on her final days tormented by terminal cancer.. That was the first time in my life, I learned there existed an illness known as cancer. Papa in his ignorance had thought that cancer was infectious.

But cancer caught us unawares. In the year 1977, Mummy had a severe headache. She had till then been toiling in the kitchen happily for the entire family. The headache morphed into paralysis. We were all poorly oriented. We took her to Ayurveda and Allopathy doctors. They were of the opinion it was nothing but paralysis that required time for cure. But when a close relative castigated us for not taking Mummy to Super Speciality Doctors, we took her at once to the Kottayam Medical College Hospital.

She was examined there by a Neuro Physician who put three questions to us.

Didn’t you take her to doctors earlier?

We replied, ‘Yes’.

 

Didn’t they have a look at her eyes with a pen torch?

We said, ‘Yes’.

 

What did they see there?

We answered, ‘We have no idea ’.

The Professor was emphatic. He said the patient was afflicted  with Brain Tumour and CMC Vellore was the only place that could take care of her.

At CMC Vellore, it was diagonised that she had Glioblastoma, a highly aggressive and malignant form of Glioma.

There was Surgery followed by Chemotherapy, Radiation, Physiotherapy and a host of medicines. The treatment enabled her to get up and gradually move around. However following a relapse, she breathed her last nine months after the splitting headache had surfaced.

More was in the pipeline. This time it was breast cancer that caught my sister in law at the beginning of the century. The malignancy was Stage 2. But Mastectomy coupled with Chemotherapy, Radiation and medicines along with close monitoring cured her of the ailment. She lived on for two decades. However a cardiac indisposition took her away.

Whenever we hear of brain tumour and breast cancer we are on an alert.

Recently, we came across an article in the Times of India of 20th June 2025 by Lata Mishra.

“The hidden breast cancer risk all Indian women should know about.”

I am not from the medical field. My awareness on that domain is not even skeletal.

I present what I have learned from the article.

Unlike in US, women in India are not told if they have dense breasts. This could mean a missed cancer diagnosis. In dense breasts additional screening is crucial as mammograms may miss early tumours. Dense breasts are biologically more active and harder to image. Dense breasts are breasts  that have a higher proportion of fibrous and glandular tissue compared to fatty tissue. Fibrous tissue in the breast is a normal component of breast tissue and a natural part of breast structure providing support and structure. Glandular tissue in the breast is responsible for milk production and is a key component of breast tissue. Fatty tissue in the breast is a normal and natural component of breast structure, composed of fat cells.

 Dense breasts are more common than we think.

 Dense breasts make self examination difficult.

 Regular mammograms can be the difference between Stage I and Stage IV.

 Nearly half of women aged 40 and above are found to have dense breast tissue in               mammograms.

 Breast density is directly linked to an increased cancer risk.

 US FDA has mandated mammogram reports to include breast density details since last year (2024).

 Breast density cannot be identified through appearance or physical examination.

Women with extremely dense breasts have a 1.5 to 2 times risk of breast cancer than those with fatty breasts – a composition where the majority of the tissue is fat, with relatively little fibrous or glandular tissue. (Breast tisuue is made up of three main components: fatty tissue, fibrous tissue and glandular tissue. Fibrous and glandular tissues are collectively referred to as fibroglandular tissues). Fatty breasts are associated with a lower risk of breast cancer compared to breasts with higher density as it’s easier to detect abnormalities on a mammogram.

 Looking for a tumour in dense breasts is like spotting a snowball in a snowstorm.

 Breast cancer begins when a single cell in the breast undergoes mutation.

 Women with dense breasts face a higher risk because of increased cell population.

 Oestrogen plays a key role in making breasts dense.

 Women with a first degree relative with breast cancer or dense breasts are more likely to          have dense tissue.

 Breasts have glandular cells that produce milk and hormonal stimulation till a certain age.     These cells can multiply.

 Contrast Enhanced Digital Mammography (CEDM) can reveal hidden tumour. It is a cost         effective alternative to MRI. But it is not available in India.

 If India imposes rules on breast density disclosure for every mammography it would improve   transparency in diagnosis.

 Dense breasts as seen on a mammorgram refer to breast tissue that has a higher proportion   of glandular and fibrous connective tissue compared to fatty tissue. It’s a normal variation in   breast composition and not an abnormal condition or disease.

 Breast size doesnot determine breast density. Younger women tend to have dense breasts,     but not always.

 Diet and exercise do not directly change breast density.

 Dense breasts do not cause any noticeable symptoms like pain or changes in breast             appearance.

 While dense breasts are not cancerous, they may slightly increase the risk of developing         breast cancer.

 Dense breasts have more glandular and fibrous tissue, which appear white on a                     mammogram, and less fatty tissue which appear darker.

 On a mammogram, dense tissue can make it harder to detect tumours because both dense     tissue and tumours can appear white.

 Women with dense breasts may benefit from supplemental screening options like ultrasound   or MRI in addition to mammograms for  improving early detection.

Over 50% of Indian breast cancer cases come to light at Stage III or Stage IV due to late detection.

 22% of Indian women aged 40 – 49 have dense breasts.

 All breasts have milk producing glands and fibrous tissues, while non dense breasts mostly     have fatty tisuues.

Dense breasts are not related to breast size or firmness.

You can’t tell if you have dense breasts based on how your breasts look or on their firmness.

 

 

 

 

 


DO YOU REACH FOR A NASALSPRAY WHEN YOU CATCH A COLD?

 Do you reach for a nasal spray when you catch a cold?

If you are doing that several times a day for weeks and the congestion keeps coming back, often worse than before, there is a good chance you are addicted to the spray.

The overuse leads to a vicious cycle of relief and rebound congestion.

Rebound congestion is a direct fall out of nasal spray addiction.

Though nasal decongestants like oxymetazoline marketed under brand names such as Otrivin and Nasivion are safe and effective for short term use as directed by the physician, prolonged, unsupervised use beyond the recommended duration leads to people getting hooked.

Our nose has mass-like structures called turbinates that regulate airflow. The turbinates become swollen or enlarged ( known as turbinate hypertrophy) in those who suffer from allergies, sinus infections or chronic colds. 

Nasal sprays shrink these turbinates. 

A turbinate measuring 10mm may shrink to 5mm after using the decongestant nasal drop, offering temporary relief. But once the effect wears off, typically after eight hours, the turbinate doesn't return tp its original size. It often swells to 11mm. This is known as rebound congestion. 

With every subsequent use of the nasal drop, the turbinate enlarge further, worsening the blockage and deepening the dependency.

The overuse of nasal sprays is not good for heart health as it can get into the blood stream. It may worsen hypertension as the sprays constrict blood vessels.

The condition, rhinitis, may induce anosmia (complete loss of smell), chronic nasal obstruction and psychological dependence on the nasal sprays.

Strong willpower is needed to break the cycle. Some manage it. Many find it incredibly difficult necessitating surgical intervention. The procedure, turbinoplasty(turbinate reduction surgery) done under local anesthesia, reduces the size of the turbinates.

Nasal sprays can safely be used sticking to two doses a day and not more than five days at a stretch.

Saline sprays without chemicals are also safe.

Sprays that contain oxymetazoline and phenylephrine cause addiction on overuse.


Excerpts from 
the article 
'Can't breathe without it' 
by
Umesh Isalkar
in
Times of India 
25 June 2025

VITILIGO New hope, new treatments for those who are fighting skin patch stigma

 VITILIGO

New hope, new treatments for those who are fighting skin patch stigma

Vitiligo is an autoimmune disorder. It is characterised by the loss of normal pigment from skin in localised areas. It is due to an abnormality in the melanocytes - cells that produce melanin, a pigment that gives us our skin, hair and eye colour - in these areas that makes the body's own immune response destroy them.

Sometimes, external chemicals induce vertigo like depigmentation. But very often there is no external cause.

Vitiligo is not contagious.

It is not related to diet though it does have sense triggers

There is no cure for vitiligo, but it can be managed with light therapy, oral medication and in some cases skin grafting.

Anybody with any skin colour or skin type can get vitiligo. It usually begins in childhood or early adulthood but can occur at any age.

Vitiligo may impact mental health. Here the patient's attention must be routed away from the patches and they must be encouraged to focus on other areas of life.

Vitiligo has treatment options that could mellow it down.

Times of India
25 june 2025


Shraddha Jain or Aiyyo Shraddha

 Shraddha Jain or Aiyyo Shraddha made many raise their eyebrows  when she switched from an IT job to stand - up - comedy.


She says:


" I asked myself, does this job bring me joy - and importantly, does it help me to bring joy to others?

It didn't. It was then that I found radio - and it was wonderful. This joy - this feeling of 'I want to make people laugh' fuelled something in me"


She adds:

"I am colourblind to discrimination" 

 According to her,  gender has never posed an obstacle in her life as a comedian in the largely male dominant field.


Times of India
25 June 2025

EACH DAY YOU GO TO SCHOOL

One day, a freshly appointed teacher had come to me 

and said he felt his performance had not been up to the desired level.


I wrote to the teacher:


Each day you go to the school, 

please pray to God to help you do well that day.

Each time you leave the staff room for the  class room

please pray to God to help you teach well

Each time you arrive at the classroom, 

please pray to God the children grasp

what you teach.


Let me quote what your Principal told me one day.

"Sir, God gives us an opportunity only once.

 If we let that slip or if we don't make use of it, 

the opportunity will not be there a second time.

It's upto us to grab gleefully the opportunities 

that come our way. 

If we don't someone else will seize it 

and prosper to our consternation."

GRAB YOUR CHANCE WHENEVER IT COMES.

IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO CREATE

SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE

Monday, June 23, 2025

WHERE WE ERR

 Actor Chitrangda Singh


I should have done more work. 

When I see some of my old films, 

I feel I could have done much better. 

I feel I just threw away the opportunity 

when I could have pulled it off 

in a much better way.


Sunday Times of india
22nd June 2025


Introspect

Do we vibe 

with the Actor

If we disagree

We are dishonest

United Kingdom of Kerala (UKOK)

 Arun Vaiga

Writer - Director 

United Kingdom of Kerala  UKOK

The film talks of a young man who wishes to make his life in Kerala when  there is mass emigration from Kerala among the youth during the past couple of years. Statistics reveal 2.3 lakhs had migrated in 2023.

The young man, when he tries to start a business, learns some bitter truths, like how the system can make even the simplest thing difficult.

Arun continues, "Our kids today donot know the people or things around them. Instead they see things on  social media and go after those. Instead of using their talents and skills on the opportunities we have here, they go abroad and some face a tough time."


Sunday Times of India
22nd June 2025

Sunday, June 22, 2025

FROM MY OWN LIFE

 FROM MY OWN LIFE

 

In my office we had numerous in service training sessions.

We always loved it because it meant we could be away from the tough life in the offices.  It had always been a hard grind there where it began the moment you stepped in. It often went on to late in the night. - 7pm, 8pm, 9pm, 10pm, 11pm, 12pm and even 1am. 

Somehow you get back home, hit the bed, wake up at 4am, 5am and run to catch the 5am, 6am train. The routine never wavered. You can imagine what my wife had been through. And she had a four dimensional profile. Daughter, mother, children, cooking, not forgetting the roles of the responsible job she was in, driver and that of a loving wife.  Then it was nine dimensional if you had a look at her involvement in my family and my Papa’s welfare.

Well, she was game.

Now on the training:

One instructor had drilled into our mind something we could never forget or afford to forget:

"See when you are posted at an office, you have no options to fire the one who works under you. You will not have the power to appoint anyone of your liking. You will never get a positive response from your superiors on your pleadings.”

 

“YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND ONE THING.

YOUR PROBLEMS ARE YOUR OWN.

IT IS FOR YOU TO SOLVE THEM OR RESOLVE THEM.

YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF.

AND PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT NO ONE WOULD LIFT EVEN THEIR LITTLE FINGER TO LEND YOU A HELPING HAND."

I never forgot this.

But as a true Christian, not the vocal one, I believed in the power of prayer. I prayed. I visit the Edathua, Parumala  and Vettucaud Churches whenever I have an opportunity knowing  very well, my own Church never encourages it.

But I go there. Quite unlike our Churches they are always open. I sit there. Meditate. Pray silently to the one and only God I believe in.

I can honestly say the prayers have been answered.

I never meant you have to take a leaf and do likewise.

You are the final arbiter on how your life should be.


COPING WITH DEMANDS ON THE JOB


 

Visakh, son of my good friend Manikantan recently met me. He had joined a Startup after his studies. He told me he was unable to cope with the demands on his job. He requested me to delve into the issues and help him overcome the challenges that threatened to crush him. 

 I said  I was not good at such things

StilI,  I wrote to him:

 

Dear Visakh,


 I have a blog.


childisprecious.blogspot.com 


In the usual run I request people to look it up if they have the time and interest.
No one bothers. 
I don't mind.
But in your instance, I insist. 
There are 403 posts.


Many of them are motivational. They can elevate.
Take your time. Go through them.
I can't say it would be good for you. But it may be. 
Please revert if you gain. 
Please revert if you find them worthless.

 For a writer criticism of any kind would be beneficial.

It refines him.

Fight baba. Fight to succced. 
Hardwork alone matters.
It has no substitutes
Only thing is ask questions.
Questions on every moment of your own interactions with others and your own performance. 
There could always be indicators. 

Reengineer the self.

Regards
Abraham

 

Friday, June 20, 2025

CHETAN BHAGAT ON CRICKET

 I am reading an article in Times of India 20June2025 

by Chetan Bhagat

The Cost of Indians Being Too Crazy About Cricket

with a subtitle

"Young people's obsession with the sport makes them waste critical years of their life.  They must understand they are just anonymous cogs in a marketing machine."


It concludes with:

" Don't waste your life watching other people achieve excellence, get inspired by them and achieve it yourself."


What else we need to begin our day with!!

CSI /MODERATOR/ Election/ July 21st,2025

Rephrasing a subtitle in the editorial folio
 of Times of India 19June2025

"Engage when interests align,
 push back when self respect,
 faith and convictions
 are challenged 
and when you are
 forced
 to toe the line 
of the errants 
and the evil doers, 
put the interests 
of CSI 
above 
global validation"

MUNDAKATHIL FAMILY


The Mundakathil  Family. 

Their Valiappachan  had begged shamelessly to all and sundry to help his grandchildren find jobs abroad. 

Reji went first.

Now three grandsons are abroad. Two are citizens of the countries they stay. Reji has built a good house. He has transformed the flood prone shops - the family enterprise -  to flood  resistant shops and has named the building after his Valiappachan. 

Saji had built a modern house that was soon flooded.He had promptly renovated it to keep it flood safe. 

Now we see him fulfilling the desire of his Valiappachan buying the property in front of his house. It must have cost him a hefty sum. And he has his own house in Australia. His children are not going to come back to India. He is a retired employee in Australia drawing decent pension benefits. He is very active in his Church. 

If he had been prudent like many people like his peers he wouldn't have invested anything at  Kodupunna. 

But he differs.

Perhaps he is led by his ancestor's soul. Doubtless God is with him. God is guiding him.

God is leading him

Monday, June 16, 2025

GRILLING / CONFUSION / EXASPERATING/BEIJING, SHANGHAI, MACAU, HONGKONG VIA SINGAPORE AND CHENNAI

 Anoop, Reshma and Aaron reached Beijing from Singapore at 4pm Chinese time. 16May2025. They had flown to Singapore from Trivandrum via Chennai.

According to Anoop the airport was heavily crowded. Like a busy market.He had the impression at least 5000 people were there to go through customs and immigration. It was very slow. At the immigration they were questioned threadbare why they were visiting China. Why they were going to Macau. And why to HongKong. He says it was a very tough questioning. The grilling over they stepped out to claim their baggage. But the baggage claim area was very far. They had to catch a train to reach there. The queue for boarding the train was very long. They could get into it at the third trip only.

Once they were there, their luggage was not in sight. The conveyor belt kept on revolving. Then they checked at  the unclaimed baggage counter. When they showed their baggage card issued from Singapore at the counter  their baggage was fished out. Obviously when the baggage was going round and round unclaimed it must have ended up at the unclaimed baggage counter. 

When they had the baggage they couldn't locate their driver at the exit. Fortunately they had his number. But they didn't know each other. Wisdom dawned. They exchanged their photos and with that  they managed to locate each other. On the road as they seemed tired, the driver helped them get something to drink and afterwards took them to their Hotel, Holiday Inn. However the traffic was dense in spite of the 10 lane road. Vehicles were literally crawling. It was 7pm when they finally reached the hotel. They were allotted a double room with an additional bed.

They took some rest and were going out to find food as the food at the Hotel was very expensive.

They said they'd go out and check out street food since they had seen such shops on their way to the Hotel.

Anoop says this is the only way to learn to move around.

Later Anoop spoke to us about their driver at Macau. They had taken the Bullet Train to Shanghai after they had visited the historical landmarks at Beijing. It was from Shanghai they flew into Macau. There was some hiccup in locating the driver. The moment they could meet him the driver began abusing them for the mix up. They didn't reciprocate. But once they reached the hotel, they contacted their travel agents and and sought a replacement of the driver. It was at once done.

Once Macau was explored, they travelled in a taxi to HongKong taking the 45km sea bridge, an engineering marvel.  They were stopped at the gateway to HongKong. The grilling was severe. Though Reshma and Aaron were cleared, Anoop was made to wait for 45 minutes before he was cleared after a barrage of questions.

After HongKong, they returned to Trivandrum via Singapore and Chennai.

CHOKER

 Choker is the unkindest of  labels in sport. It means you have the talent, but not the temperament to win, especially when it matters most. It means your defeats are caused as much by your opponents as by the demons in your head. It is a terrible cross to bear.


Perhaps you may find you are up against opponents who relish the big stage and seldom concede an inch.

But if you have the fire in you, if you have the patience and the discipline, you can successfully rewrite the script and bury the tag of 'Choker' forever.   


You need inspirational leadership for that.  To stay there you will have to fight on even if you are plagued by discomforts and disabilities.


Finally you will have to believe you are going to turn the tables in your favour.


Major source:

The Editorial

Times of India 

16thJune2025