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Wednesday, April 1, 2026

QUESTION AND ANSWER

 


I raised a question.

"Three quotes imbibed in me."

Is it correct usage?

Here is the answer.

Yes, "three quotes imbibed in me" is a grammatically correct and understandable usage, particularly in a literary or reflective context. 

It means you have absorbed, adopted, or internalized three specific quotes to the point where they are part of your thinking or character. 

Here is a breakdown of the usage:

Imbibe (verb): 

While it literally means to drink, it is commonly used figuratively to mean taking in, absorbing, or assimilating ideas, knowledge, or principles.

Imbibed in me: 

This implies the quotes were taken into your mind/soul.

Alternative phrasing: 

While correct, you could also say:

"I have imbibed three quotes." (Active)

"Three quotes are deeply ingrained in me."

"I have internalized three quotes." 

The usage is perfectly fine for expressing that you have learned and held onto certain words of wisdom.

LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP

 

LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP 

Census 2027 will record live in couples who stay in a household in a stable union as married couples. 

It means there will be zero data on how many Indians are choosing live in relationships. 

The census should capture cultural shifts as erasers cannot kill any cultural momentum.

The policy makers' ability to constructively address how a society is transforming should never be obstructed. 

Live - ins are now are more popular than marriage in USA and UK

It is certain that cohabiting couples exist in India. It is a growing feature not only in metro cities.

But there is a lot of social animus. Never mind that Supreme Court has found it protected under the right to life and liberty. 

Hostilities are animated by the idea that this is not 'Indian Culture.'

But culture never is, never has been, a static thing. It is constantly evolving.

Indian mythology suggests that, once upon a time, Indians were much less puritanical.
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Sourced from the editorial, 'Count us in,' of Times of India, 31.03.2026

Tuesday, March 31, 2026

SHREYA AND LATHIKA

 

Shreya  stepped into the newspaper's office with trepidation. It was just 1km from her house. Those were the days when buses were far and few. KSRTC had the monopoly of the roads in the city. The drivers rode the vehicles behaving as if they were the emperors of the roads. The conductors were happy tapping the double bell at all stops. It saved them from doing the work for which they were recruited.Commuters would run hither and thither. It was a cat and mouse game. The lucky few managed to get a foothold in. The rest trekked it to their destinations on foot.

The girl was 12 years. She was in the 6th standard. She was the errand boy of the house as the parents had two daughters only as their offsprings. No sons. They were shocked when the second child was a girl.

They did look after Shreya well.  However, they were always comparing her with the elder daughter, Lathika who had been at once beautiful  and brilliant. She excelled in her studies. They had the feeling the younger one would reach nowhere as they had thought she was neither beautiful nor briiliant.

As there had been no one else at home, Shreya would be sent to the shops to purchase everything the house needed on an emergency. Jobs, the sons were delegated at the households in those days. Another task she had been assigned was to visit the Gautami Hospital if anyone fell sick at home. For all diseases it had a single panacea. A few ounces of the red mixture as the medicine for anything and everything. The beauty was the ailments were cured with that.

Lathika  had  been awaiting the results of her final  year degree examination. Eight years the girl's senior, the sister had been studious. A topper, she had very good results all along right from her first standard in the school. She had performed very well at the second year's University examination  with an above 50% result for Part II.

As everyone considered  Lathika brilliant, it had been assumed, she would clear the degree exam with a high first class. Those were the days when newspapers carried the results of the exams held  in Kerala. Those were the days when reputations were established and reputations were blemished by the newspapers that published the results.

As Shreya loved Lathika very much, she  wanted nothing but  the very best for her elder sister.

At the newspaper's office, the staff on duty were surprised to see the puny girl. She was hesitant. Someone, to put her at ease, quried why she was there. She blurted out,"Result." She unfolded her palm, and there it was. The register number of her elder sister for BA English final. A kind lady came forward and took the scrap of paper from her hand. 

The lady looked up the  result sheets. There it was. It was a pass in Third Class. The lady wrote it out on the paper itself and handed it over to the girl. Though she was only 12, she could understand that her elder sister's result was not at all good. She began crying there itself. The staff at the office pacified her. They gave her two chocolates and told her to return to her place. The girl followed the advice. She took the short cut. She couldn't hold back her tears that were rolling down spontaneously. She just didnot know how to present the misfortune to the people at home, that included Lathika who had high hopes of scoring at least a first class. 

Shreya walked slowly. She took a long time to reach home. The moment she reached home, she was admonished for her ineptitude in not hurrying up with the good news that they all had expected. She kept quiet. She didn't say a word. She quietly handed over the scrap of paper to her Amma. 

A look at that, it was a big commotion. Everyone in the house were weeping. Lathika was inconsolable. She cried aloud unashamedly. Between her sobs, she was murmuring her future was doomed. No one at home slept that night

Time is a big healer. 

After a week Lathika's favourite teacher contacted her. The teacher told her nothing was lost with the Third Class in the degree final examination. She was advised to apply for admission to the MA English Course as there was a fair chance of securing admission with the second class she had scored for Part II English in her BA second year examination.

The teacher was right. Lathika could secure admission to MA English as the teacher had predicted.

The studious girl she was, Lathika had applied herself whole heartedly into her studies over the next two years. It was a commitment.

Her result amazed everyone. She had won  a second class. There were no first classes and there were only three second classes in that batch.

The moment her results were announced, there were four offers of appointment in as many number of colleges as a Lecturer in English. She joined the one that seemed the best and that took her on to 35 years of meritorious service as Lecturer, Professor, Principal  and Director.

Her students always liked her as she was an efficient teacher.

For Lathika,  wedding bells chimed soon after her results. She had a doting husband and  four wonderful children, three daughters  and a son. The children had grown up and were well educated. They were settled in different parts of the world.

Shreya  was happy for Lathika who had made it big in the world.


 

Sunday, March 29, 2026

With new challenges comes growth

 


Tessy is in IT

He's good at computer.

When I needed Videos of three speeches in  a programme held at KUT Seminary on Friday last, I requested him to help out.

He responded:

I will try to get all that you said... I am not sure if I can get the transcripts. but will definitely try.

I wrote:

I sought the impossible because you are a wizard.

And Tessy replied:

I can definitely try uncle.

With new challenges, comes growth

Saturday, March 28, 2026

JOB P K AND ME

 

TRIVANDRUM THAT IS THIRUVANANTHAPURAM  MARCH 2026

 Job P K: Is it part of your autobiography?

Me: Not yet

Me: I wrote what was within me. It's a rambling style.

It begins abruptly. Ends abruptly.

The advantage is you can either balloon it or reduce it or constrict it.

 Job P K: But Govindan may not remember any of this

Me: At least you do.

U C COLLEGE ALWAYE THAT IS ALUVA NOW

Let me reminisce.

The period begins from June  1965

From a cocooned life at Munnar, I found myself plucked out and planted at the New Hostel, UCCollege.

Away from home for the first time in life everything was new to me. 

I was scared.

There was the minor matter of the change in medium to English

While at school at Munnar I had read about ragging in colleges. I was afraid someone would do scary things to me.

First Predegree, I moved around without attracting anyone's attention.

I must say I was unfit for College and especially Hostel life. 

Then I watched from a distance two aggressive seniors of 2nd predegree, residents of Skinner Hostel. 

I could see them moving around making a lot of noise. I still remember the red tight pants and the pointed shoes of the shorter among the two. The other too wore tight pants. They would shout galliyam always. 

If I found them anywhere, I used to keep myself away from them and kept always a safe distance from them. 

I was successful. They never saw me.

They were inseparable. The shorter of the two was Job and the other was Govindan

One year over, I was in the 2nd year Predegree 

Predegree over, I went to join BSc chemistry at UC college. There he was, Govindan in my class. And at the hostel, I found Job. He was in special BSc Physics. 

They had shed their pants. Mundu was the costume most of the time. 

I found out they had failed in the 2nd year Predegree. They passed it when they wrote again.

Now they were nonviolent. Very friendly. Totally transformed. They were studious. They had good results. I heard the short man joined BARC and my classmate joined some Eloor company.

Around 2 years ago MIThomas contacted or it might be the other way. He said Job and Govindan are Americans now. But Job had a flat in Trivandrum.

The long and short of it. MP reconnected us. 

And we are connected now.

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

WE ARE TWO

 


We are two

We are together

                                                                          





                                                                                 

                                                                                          

THE SMILE

  

The ever lasting smile. 

Lonely it stands

The smile 

Mesmerises you